She For Her

A Woman is an enemy of A Woman. Is that true? While walking down the streets, I saw a group of five boys sitting on the bikes at corner of the road. They were staring at me, and then, they started commenting weird and vulgar things on me. On the other side of the road, I saw two women standing in the balcony, gossiping and having fun. When boys continued, those ladies changed their gossip topics to my dressing sense. What I heard was, they are chattering about girls should not wear these kinds of Western stuffs, those hot pants, crop shirts, backless tops, etc showing skiny body which attracts the boys on road sides. I know there are many, almost every girls, suffered catcalling. But, my question is, Who are actually wrong here, the girls wearing western clothes or the boys doing catcalling?? No friends, the women sitting and gossiping about the girls are wrong, the women seeing the incident and ignoring them is wrong, the women knowing the fact that this will happen to a girl and still kept a silence is wrong, because dress sense will not attract catcalling boys, rather, a wrong step from another women will definitely provoke those stupids to carry on with their entertaining work.

What we are finding to be safe is the Unity. But, a girl cannot trust an unknown man/boy standing beside, rather she will move to an unknown lady/girl on the other side. Why, because she knew that she will be atleast secure with a woman than a man. I don't know about you girls, but I generally do the same when I feel something wrong with any guy. From here, what I learn is "Unity Can Be Found Among Group Of Girls". A man can be bodyguards, a strong gentle person, or handsome guy. But, the only thing girl will not accept him is because she will never trust him. Instead, she would believe a weak lady with a bamboo stick, or a housekeeper with a slippers in her hand, for protection. I know, this is little bit funny. But, You keep yourself in my place and think twice, whom would you girls believe?

Am I wrong? No, exactly. Now the point comes, what is the common solution for these kind of problems? It's simple. Just prove the first statement of these article as WRONG. A woman should Support a woman. Not only in these catcalling situation, but also in other jobs like, in a house relationships between two different aged women, or it might be in office where a lady boss screaming under pressure, a women should understand her well in every complicated situation. A Woman can NOT be an enemy of A Woman. This is true, and if not, then make this true.

Think What if, the lady standing in the balcony shout to those boys commenting on a girl, or, a women employee make other employees understand that their lady boss is in pressure, or like typical ladies fight in almost every house between a women and her mother-in-law (like in hindi, "saas or bahut ke jhagde"), a mother-in-law should support her in doings and a women should understand her old age thinking, and alot more. This is what known to be SHE FOR HER. Thus, these create a unity among girls, which will make others thing twice before doing wrong.

Is She Really SMILING

People outside the four walls see her smiling and laughing, never knew that what she feels inside the room. She loves to chat with her friends in her life, but after reaching home she might not be able to see a single friend around. She tried to make people laugh beside her, but does anyone knew that she couldn't able to make a single person smile in that room.

Nobody knows, from where she learn to stay happy, who taught her to be a laughing budha in everybody's life. She wished everyone to stay happy and she only pray for their blessings. But, I think there are few who really care for her. I don't know why she pretend to be happy all days and every morning, her pillow speaks on the behave of her tears. She lives with four other people, but cries only in dark when nobody able to watch her out.

These may be strange that, people beside her always say her that how she's able to manage with life stuffs? Is she not dealing with problems.. Any problems? Really? How does she handle with difficulties? For all those questions, she reply only once and always she answers the same for all, that is, "When complications arrive, I Smile slowly and speak to myself that SMILE is the only way I cope up with all those things in my life". Nobody believes her, but that's true, she says, smiling gives her strength and laughing make her believe that yes, she can do and it's almost done baby, have patience to reach the end of it.

She sometimes sad, may be in worse situation, still she'll be there for anyone whom she cared alot. Because she knew that, her happiness and smile may give a strength and joy to anyone. May be she need someone who always be there for her standing just beside her and always make her remember that Girl, you can cry in front of me, nobody is here to listen you. You might be thinking what about people living with her? They don't care?

Yup, she lives with her mother, who always says that every smile has tears so be careful while laughing alot. She has a brother, who never ever smile, he is just opposite to her. He never tried to smile, she feels bad looking her that brothers can be like this also. One is her grandmother, who never loved her, because she is girl child or maybe, she is a daughter of a housekeeper, or maybe something else, which she might not knowing. And also, her father, who tried to make her smile, but never supports her in anyway. She is the only one in the family who makes everyone smile for once, but nobody does the same.

There are many in the world, almost everyone, dealing with some or the other problems, but you should not ignore someone's smile and laugh who gives you little joy frequently. If nobody put a smile on your face then you have your own put that one always. Because that original one is more prettier than fake ones. This is the Real Smile. Wear Your Smile baby, not your Ego. If you concluded that this girl might be me, then let me tell you, it's wrong. She may be same as me, but not me.

Well, what I am going to say next will make you shock or may be speechless. The thing is this girl is being adopted by those people whom she called a family for outsider. They brought her home only because they need a housekeeper. And yes, she is the one, treated as maid. And she cannot speak to anyone due to fear. It's not like that, she went school and now in college, rest thinking for better future too, and may be more after that, but she lives like a servant in her own so-called house. So friends, never say anyone, not to laugh or smile because you might not be knowing her smile may suffers many tears in the dark. Rather, make them smile and Try To Help them because they are scared of speaking forward.