Staircase

Start is always difficult.
But once you get started
You can maintain your consistency
It's hard to lift your leg for the first time
But, It's easy when done usually
Every single step is unknown
It may be big one, or may be wrong
May be broad, May be narrow
May possible that it's hollow
But, you cannot judge before taking the step
Just try it for once
Perhaps, it's your good choice
May be it lead to new hope or new life.
Doesn't matter if you chose wrong stairs
Put your legs one stair down,
And start it all again
Because nothing is new now.
Every difficult ones will be the best ones
As you never know which one is difficult.
Wrong step will teach a lesson
On the other hand,
Best step will give a success.
Lesson and Success are the chapters of your life
Turn the page for every case.
Never stop doing, Just moving
No need to Skip, Just go in
Either you Fail or Win
That something is better than nothing.
Every stairs has a new case,
So it's Staircase.

Actually, I can

Yes, it will Hurt me.
Painful for me.
Spoil me completely.
But, some or the other day I will win.
They tease me today for being different.
Tomorrow will be different again,
And this time, it will be mine Day.
Why they are so similar?
Thinking this made me somewhat non-identical.
My Goals are private.
But, I know, these will one day give my name in big curtain.
Fame is Nobody's Aim.
What we gain, is only the game.
Game has only two choice, either win or sometimes fail.
Its OK dear.
Another Day, Another Hope
A New Start to catch the Same Train
Now, with New Way.
Oh Actually, I can.
I can do the things right.
I can change the world's mind.
I can change that fear of mine.
I can achieve goals with all my ploys.
I can, Yes, I am going to do that.
So what, if they are different.
Different are not always Difficult.
But, Different are always Definite.
And, Definite will lead to Destiny.
Eventually, Destiny equalize Success.
Here, when I'll stop chasing to be different.
Ultimately, success will be my answer to those who said I can't.
But, I can.
No, Actually I did.
And, This is it.

I am a Struggler

What is Failure? Am I a failure? Is this a end of my life? Will you please explain me the word "Failure"? No other chance to win!! No other option to move forward!! Really, Am I lost everything? Yes, I am upset, and may be Depressed too. Exactly, I don't know which type of feeling is this. I am confused with my life. I don't know what's going in my mind. I think these may only be the symptoms of failing. In my childhood, I have learned in science that every symptoms can be cured. So I think, Failing is not the reason to be like this always.

Due to this, I never spoke to my belongings. Because I know they'll react as if, there is no chance to win. But, I know the only aspect to success is Trying and it may possible that One Try failed many times. So what, there are other ways to try. Atleast, Failure means I have tried once. These kind of thinking is issued in today's world, but, what about our parents, and relatives, and people in our so-called society, they still believe, that one attempt, if you loss, then, no need to continue with second chance, because failure means failure, just waste of chances.

Sometimes, failure is the only option to become successful. Every successful man failed for once to achieve dreams. If people say, "You are a Failure" then, I'll stand up and shout loud that "I am a Struggler, not a Failure". After all, it's true that one day I will be on top of them, I will be on the peak point, not because I have failed or I am a Failure. But because, I am still struggling. Nothing harm to make my soul understand that I can do that what I am able to see in my dreams, as those dreams are mine, they cannot see them. I know which path will take me there, because I know how to make my paths clear. Have faith my dear heart, one day I will do that, and, I'll definitely win this war.

She For Her

A Woman is an enemy of A Woman. Is that true? While walking down the streets, I saw a group of five boys sitting on the bikes at corner of the road. They were staring at me, and then, they started commenting weird and vulgar things on me. On the other side of the road, I saw two women standing in the balcony, gossiping and having fun. When boys continued, those ladies changed their gossip topics to my dressing sense. What I heard was, they are chattering about girls should not wear these kinds of Western stuffs, those hot pants, crop shirts, backless tops, etc showing skiny body which attracts the boys on road sides. I know there are many, almost every girls, suffered catcalling. But, my question is, Who are actually wrong here, the girls wearing western clothes or the boys doing catcalling?? No friends, the women sitting and gossiping about the girls are wrong, the women seeing the incident and ignoring them is wrong, the women knowing the fact that this will happen to a girl and still kept a silence is wrong, because dress sense will not attract catcalling boys, rather, a wrong step from another women will definitely provoke those stupids to carry on with their entertaining work.

What we are finding to be safe is the Unity. But, a girl cannot trust an unknown man/boy standing beside, rather she will move to an unknown lady/girl on the other side. Why, because she knew that she will be atleast secure with a woman than a man. I don't know about you girls, but I generally do the same when I feel something wrong with any guy. From here, what I learn is "Unity Can Be Found Among Group Of Girls". A man can be bodyguards, a strong gentle person, or handsome guy. But, the only thing girl will not accept him is because she will never trust him. Instead, she would believe a weak lady with a bamboo stick, or a housekeeper with a slippers in her hand, for protection. I know, this is little bit funny. But, You keep yourself in my place and think twice, whom would you girls believe?

Am I wrong? No, exactly. Now the point comes, what is the common solution for these kind of problems? It's simple. Just prove the first statement of these article as WRONG. A woman should Support a woman. Not only in these catcalling situation, but also in other jobs like, in a house relationships between two different aged women, or it might be in office where a lady boss screaming under pressure, a women should understand her well in every complicated situation. A Woman can NOT be an enemy of A Woman. This is true, and if not, then make this true.

Think What if, the lady standing in the balcony shout to those boys commenting on a girl, or, a women employee make other employees understand that their lady boss is in pressure, or like typical ladies fight in almost every house between a women and her mother-in-law (like in hindi, "saas or bahut ke jhagde"), a mother-in-law should support her in doings and a women should understand her old age thinking, and alot more. This is what known to be SHE FOR HER. Thus, these create a unity among girls, which will make others thing twice before doing wrong.

Is She Really SMILING

People outside the four walls see her smiling and laughing, never knew that what she feels inside the room. She loves to chat with her friends in her life, but after reaching home she might not be able to see a single friend around. She tried to make people laugh beside her, but does anyone knew that she couldn't able to make a single person smile in that room.

Nobody knows, from where she learn to stay happy, who taught her to be a laughing budha in everybody's life. She wished everyone to stay happy and she only pray for their blessings. But, I think there are few who really care for her. I don't know why she pretend to be happy all days and every morning, her pillow speaks on the behave of her tears. She lives with four other people, but cries only in dark when nobody able to watch her out.

These may be strange that, people beside her always say her that how she's able to manage with life stuffs? Is she not dealing with problems.. Any problems? Really? How does she handle with difficulties? For all those questions, she reply only once and always she answers the same for all, that is, "When complications arrive, I Smile slowly and speak to myself that SMILE is the only way I cope up with all those things in my life". Nobody believes her, but that's true, she says, smiling gives her strength and laughing make her believe that yes, she can do and it's almost done baby, have patience to reach the end of it.

She sometimes sad, may be in worse situation, still she'll be there for anyone whom she cared alot. Because she knew that, her happiness and smile may give a strength and joy to anyone. May be she need someone who always be there for her standing just beside her and always make her remember that Girl, you can cry in front of me, nobody is here to listen you. You might be thinking what about people living with her? They don't care?

Yup, she lives with her mother, who always says that every smile has tears so be careful while laughing alot. She has a brother, who never ever smile, he is just opposite to her. He never tried to smile, she feels bad looking her that brothers can be like this also. One is her grandmother, who never loved her, because she is girl child or maybe, she is a daughter of a housekeeper, or maybe something else, which she might not knowing. And also, her father, who tried to make her smile, but never supports her in anyway. She is the only one in the family who makes everyone smile for once, but nobody does the same.

There are many in the world, almost everyone, dealing with some or the other problems, but you should not ignore someone's smile and laugh who gives you little joy frequently. If nobody put a smile on your face then you have your own put that one always. Because that original one is more prettier than fake ones. This is the Real Smile. Wear Your Smile baby, not your Ego. If you concluded that this girl might be me, then let me tell you, it's wrong. She may be same as me, but not me.

Well, what I am going to say next will make you shock or may be speechless. The thing is this girl is being adopted by those people whom she called a family for outsider. They brought her home only because they need a housekeeper. And yes, she is the one, treated as maid. And she cannot speak to anyone due to fear. It's not like that, she went school and now in college, rest thinking for better future too, and may be more after that, but she lives like a servant in her own so-called house. So friends, never say anyone, not to laugh or smile because you might not be knowing her smile may suffers many tears in the dark. Rather, make them smile and Try To Help them because they are scared of speaking forward.

Way Of Affection

"Today, I kissed my dad on the forehead as he passed away in a small hospital bed. About 5 seconds after he passed, I realized it was the first time I had given him a kiss since I was a little."

There are so many affection which we forget to return before leaving the world. Dad was the first one to kiss my forehead when I was born, now I am the last one in his death. I become so busy in my life that I forget those people who gave me first smile and first step to stand. Today, I am sad, thinking that I would have made my dad to smile little more. When I was kid, he used to hug me in my every worse and best condition, but as I grow up, I forgot to return that hug when he needs the more.

Still there are many things to be done, but always get things with them who helped you to put those in your life. In the other way, stay with them who taught you how to stay, not only living in one house, but with affection sharing even if, in different rooms. They need love, in return of love. I know, it's not too late, starting from now may change rest of their tomorrows.

True that there are many things I wanna do with them (with my mom and dad), but, nobody can describe time for anyone. So, I just wanna say that, "Sorry to them, for everything till now, that may hurt you just because of me", but from now, love is all around. My first love will always be remembered with a smile. Affections are always beautiful when they are returning. I'm going to make all those beautiful things to be happen in their upcoming part of life.

I will always be there to hug them when they are sad, always be there to kiss their forehead when they feel tensed. I will change the WAY OF AFFECTION turning towards them. So as apply to you too,think to be the hero for your dad and a sister for your mom, after that see the change happening all around.

POWER Of UNIQUENESS

Today, I asked my mentor – a very successful business man in his 70’s – what his top 3 tips are for success. He smiled and said, “Read something no one else is reading, think something no one else is thinking, and do something no one else is doing".

The above lines, I read in whatsapp as one of the Forwarded message. These lines forced me to express more, and my mind started thinking that, being different is not wrong, except, being common is actually very common. True, that mentor taught me something which I wanna do it in my life. I have being studying in college since 2015, still I am aimless till the end of my second year of journey. Every student joined a common cochin and got focused, they decided what to do and what to achieve. It's me, who was waiting for any marvellous opportunity to come, so that I should give a path to my dream.

I was thinking to do something different, something that will change the world, that will change others mind. But, I was scared, because it's only Me who was travelling to that way. Things gonna be very difficult to handle day by day. Also, I am aware that my health will no longer be secure. Eventually, Restless will become my friend. Starting Few days motivated me, then as day passes, things got fast and pending works make me uneasy.

Till now, I come to know that I was reading something different from other students. I was studying unlike to theirs. Yet, sometimes I feel like confused and helpless. Thus, the Only way I could stay focused is to follow my mentor with both my heart and mind. He always told me that success is something where we stop to think. So If we want to be successful, we have to continue thinking with different ways in the same point. When Thinkings lead to Possibilities, it will then End with Success.

Obviously, if you are trying to do what others are not doing, then they are the one who will always interrupt your way. This is what same happened with me too. I was now having my aim, my path seems to be very clear, also, I was surrounded by those people who are going to increase my difficulties. Now, it's my time to fight with all activities happening, just to reach my destination. The only reason they are blocking me, is not because I am Wrong, but, for the reason that, I am different. In view of the fact that, "Being Non-identical is Different", apart from, "Being Ordinary is Common". This is known to be The POWER Of UNIQUENESS.

Genuinely, the success is a need to every individual. But, no one wants to think positively so as to implement their ways straight to victory. Always remember, "Being Unique is actually very Unique than Being Customary" and "Difficult roads will definitely destine to easy life".

Goals Are Mine

Goals are Goals
Sometimes Big Sometimes Small,
May be luckily hit or may be badly missed,
But The only thing is
I'll stick to my aim till the end, so as to catch my grail,
For everyone, it's different way
For some, it's difficult or
For few, it's interesting,
Eventually, Goals are Goals
The one who is constant and managed throughout, is the ultimate winner
Plans are not made to be failed, but only to fix that great word called dreams,
My dream is beautiful and My passion is interesting,
Both are my love, which will keep me wild,
Beautiful and Interesting Combo creates new life on new roads,
No worries for those smile and laugh
Because they'll be with me when I want to,
Forgotten about those people whom I left in past
Because they'll always destruct my thinkings,
May be, with some, I'll be together in upcoming days
Because they know I have decided for good deeds,
But I'll never expect to return on old paths,
With positivity, End with Rage will bring something brand new,
In between, Many left me due to change,
I'll go with them who will definitely wait for me at finishing line,
They said, I lost
I said, it just Started
Focused, then, all are crystal cleared,
That when I determined to make my vision and mission equal in any case,
After all,
My Goals are mine.

ME and MYSELF

Today is my result day, but this result might not be too much important. Engineering Semester Results are not valued as compared to any competitive exams. I was sad, depressed, tensed, yeah, it's common when any result is going to be out. I prayed to Lord, hoping not to fail. Even I would be happy, if I passed by grace. The only wish I made this day was, keeping my parents happy in any situation. And if they'll be glad hearing my good response, then I'll make sure to be successful everytime. Eventually, when the result is opening, I tried to stop that for once and prayed for twice because I was scared, as usually, everyone does. Afterwards, I come to know, sometimes Negative results motivate us more than Positive ones. I stopped my mind for while and started thinking about my past experience of previous Semester. Trying to find some mistakes done by me. Fortunately, there were few, also, I come across some good vibes.

Sometimes, I make a wish, or otherwise, stand still, closing eyes and folding hands, while praying, as I always have faith and believe that he knew everything. But, 99% of faith is sometimes worthless because of just 1% of fortune. True that, we should not believe on luck. But, that 1% may kill you in just 1 second. Isn't that, so ridiculous.... In the end, still I keep doing my hardwork and believing in itself. Also, the fact is, the person who tries make everyone happy and smiling, is the one who is always sad. In the other words, the one who works so hardly and believe in good things, is the only one who cries in end only for fortune. Let me tell you, I'll change this second thought. Are these results really very important? For me, it's not. True, this is the only way to express our leading Career.

For whom do you want to score good and wanna be in top 10 list? Question this to yourself. If the answer is society, then let me tell you that, this so called "Society" will always speak whether good or bad. They will never bother about you. Because they just want a particular topic to gossip, so they will always talk about you, until and unless they reach to some new breaking information. No, society should not be your answer here. I guess, somebody will surely say "Friends". Exactly, friends...!!!  What do want to do with them too? Wanna be a stud or wanna put your collar up while standing between them. You are not wrong, sometimes it is  important to show your importance. But it's not right, when you just showing without being successful completely. I think, this results are not your ultimate goal, yet many more are left. Okay, now if you are going to choose "Relatives", then, you are the most stupid one I have ever seen. Grow up guys, you should have one thing clear in your mind that these people will always speak in favour of society, and they'll never show you the solutions, instead of that, they'll always give you problems. So forget about relatives and make a habit to ignore them.

Then, who's left, "Parents"? Yeah, they are the most worried person in our family. They will support you, show ways to right path, create solutions, grow us to particular directions. They are second to be tensed and worried about our performance. But listen, they will never be satisfied with your outputs, and they have right to wish something more from you. Because they want you to be most appreciated, most successful, and most importantly treated person, because those are the things, they haven't got. So they expect that from their children. There is nothing more precious than them. Don't do work for your parents because they'll always demotivate you saying that they want some more, but it's ok with today, better do hardwork next time. This will be their words.

Don't do for the society and relatives, because they will create a major issues when you lose, they won't help you out in any way. Don't believe your friends, because one or the other day they will become your competitors. Don't focus on parents words, because they believe in you for gaining some more medals and certificates, as they'll never be fine with your current status. Ah, every expected answer is disabled, still you haven't reached to your answer. C'mon, it's simple, the person is ME and MYSELF.

Yes, it's only ME, for whom I'm gonna do good things, for which I have to stand up with all my problems, and be a successful one just only for me. Because, it's me who is going to be there with myself, till the last point of my journey. True, It's ME and MYSELF. Who will never create an issue of my failure and motivate myself when my statistics fall down. Who will create the competitors within my friends and try to win from those crowds. Who will never worried about my parents talks, but Prove them till my end that I am something more to achieve one by one. Fact is, "I will always be there for Myself." or "You will always be there for Yourself."

Inverse Of Watch

He is fixed for every one, but keep on moving in his own place. Never worried about others. Never mind when everyone ignored him. He works for his own will. If he start bothering about what people is saying to him, then he'll never be available for those needy, and all will really messed up in their duty. He is very important in everyone's life, but sometimes, appreciation for his early finish, is kind of good friend to him, and many a time, disrespectful for being too late, is his best friend. It's not his fault to be in speed, his only job is to move straight without looking back. His past may be unknown, future may be undefined, but he believes in present to be on Time. U know what, whatever may be the condition only he will be there for everyone. Lot many things are unique in his character, that will make us to learn some more.

By the way, 'He' is not a Man for me here. First of all, re-read this above paragraph. But, Only condition is use 'It' instead of 'He' in every sentences. Interesting, Can you guess what 'It' may refer to be?? Yes, it's an object used to see time. It's Watch.

Many of us, especially ladies living in same colony or street are habitual of gossiping about daily matters. What do they actually get back after that, of course Nothing. But, they still worried about whole world and their living styles. Like, men are always busy with their work, no time for them, lots of shopping to be done because few days passed, but they didn't show off till now, or sometimes, they'll be tensed about the neighbor children's results or their friendship with others etc etc. No matter this talks really develop their minds in politics. These are one type of people.

Few in these world are actually good, they never sit and gossip with those ladies, but they are actually very eager to know the topics of the gossips, so they are having only one major drawback to sit in someone's house and grasp the information clearly. Seriously these people are more dangerous than the first type.

Don't worry, I have the third type of people to introduce you as the best one. They neither gossip with those ladies nor interact with them personally in somebody's house. But, they are one who has these in-built qualities before hand. Actually, they are more bothered about their own family living members including other relatives staying apart. They are really tensed about what other relatives will say if something happens or if appreciation overflow etc. Yeah, this is different one.

True that, I may not be able to change their behavior, but surely try to focus on their thinkings. If you carefully read the first paragraph, then you may come across few relations between rest three types of people. The only similarity is that all the three are INVERSE OF WATCH. Now you may relate them. Basically, my point is, there is no harm in changing the topics of gossip, because all we know that, gossip creates the awareness. But, Instead of talking about others daily life, we should proceed with some positive waves. Likewise, talking and appreciating others for what they are doing, as because generation is changing and learning new styles of living.

Be like Watch, Be like Different. Be on Present, Be on Time. Move On with Gossips, Move In with Styles.

Closed Senses

Sitting and staring outside window is something just common in everyone's life. When we are sad, happy, romantic or any other mood, we generally do this. We have senses to see, hear and breathe. Also a pumping heart, but unfortunately, no feelings. You're wrong, emotions and feelings are two different things. Emotions can be your feelings, but reverse is false. Generally, we say, "feeling happy" not "happy feeling", or "feeling better" not "better feeling", and rest all. This shows that feelings always lead your emotions. Also, "happy", "sad", "good", "bad", "romantic", "sick", etc are the moods of emotions, these are not your feelings. For feelings, you do not require such emotions and senses. But, for emotions, you do require some feelings.

Hey, listen, neither feelings nor emotions, but my today's topic is Senses. Not the opened one, but that CLOSED SENSES. I mean, the senses which can see without eye, hear without ear, pump without original heart. Yes, there are many who are surviving without any beautiful eyes, or any audible ears, also, few with temporary hearts to pump for countable days. They do not want a window to see outside, not worried about weathers to hear some rain drops, they just count the heartbeats which is equivalent to their livable hours.

Strange, we all have this, but are useless without feelings. For me, feelings are something which makes your heart skip one beat. With that One touch of wind may feel you to recognize the current weather, One action can feel the words of music. Senses are something that can create those invisible to visible, or simply give colours in life. You have eyes, you have hands, also the ears and the legs, still complaining about that life. But, few are happy without eyes, because they don't want to see these corrupted world or criminals all around, don't wanna hear those bad words or slangs used to shame every mother and sister. They are enjoying having nothing.

Yeah, Right, what else you can do, sitting and reading many articles like this!!?? It's not your fault that they are disabled. But, it's your biggest mistake, if you never thought of donating any senses. In future, your bodies will buried or burnt containing most of the senses, that are still working. What if you donate them!! I am actually confused about your decision, but I am sure for mine. Not only eyes, but also my heart, I am gonna donate both after my death, to the helpless people and make them realize that there are many who are not offenders, and have feelings in heart. If you really wanna help me, then help them, because they need it, even if they pretend to be happy having none. And, I'll be happy, if the title is proved wrong, let the closed become the opened ones.

Only Curve

I used to play with her in my childhood days. She comb my hairs, dress me up with beautiful forks. Visiting my house was very frequent, she drive me to right ways. Taught me good habits which I still remember. Her sons treat me like my real big Brothers. My weekends spend with them was so wonderful. I never knew that the moments used up with her will disappear so easily. Those days will become just a sweet memories was really unexpected to be so little. Not my friend, not my Mom, but very close to that. She is my Aunt, I call her Badi Mummy.

You might be thinking, why I started talking about her with no cause. Wrong, there is a huge reason, a wild ache behind this lady. Not only she, but many more, and so few cure. She was suffering from Cancer, and some years back, she died. This is common, but the person started dieing early, when they heard the word "cancer", due to depression and heart broken. Don't die thinking that you will be no more tomorrows, but die living every moments happily, thinking you may not have any tomorrows. The more you stay happy, more the injury secure. The more you smile, more healthier you become. So start living now, may be no harmful yesterday will follow tomorrow, but if we stay happy today may be this leads to live you one more day.

Admiring a person may cause little smile in heart, but caring and helping them, will make you happy, while seeing them smiling. Victim never thought of having diseases and die soon, but best medicine to live long is your Natural Smile. Not only cancer, but many suffer from Aids or may be any harmful diseases. You never know what may happen in future, may be death by accident or any diseases, or old age problem, but the only thing you can promise to yourself is to smile in any condition, because you know that, smile is the ONLY CURVE which will never leave alone in this world. You just have to make this curve large enough to spend everyday.

May possible that you will be dieing tomorrow, but today living with your smile will never regret you, of not stayed happily yesterday. My request to every people, especially those victims, is stay happy today to live your tomorrow, otherwise die today, without wasting your time with that precious smile.

Hanged Till Death

16 December, 2012; it's been 4.5 years to that case. Do you still remember that night when this incident happened? That night made the whole country to come on road with candles and shouting for justice!! Do you still remember that girl who was named as "Nirbhaya"? 

This fake name given by seeing her strength. Yes, she was very strong to fight for her life from wild beings. She was raped and almost murdered, thrown in the road side. You know what, even the Dog protect his master, because he give him food to eat and place to live, but they'll never hurt us. Even animals knew what is humanity, humans never understand this word. Those beings should left her atleast in the sake of it. She tried a lot to protect herself, but as we say, every princess require a prince to support or to fight with those terrible creatures, unfortunately they killed him before.

5th May, 2017; still the case was on and today, it is finally been closed after the justice. The court declared that the four will be HANGED TILL DEATH. All prayers come true and that parents boldly stand up in the fight of their daughter. Today, India is in relief. Really?

What about tomorrow? Do you still remember the case or the lady? Do this incident will not repeat again? Who's fault it was? The men or the girl? Exactly, No one will memorize it again. Or, this same incident cannot be stopped again. The month after the case and after the justice will only be seen in every newspapers and channels, even in the dinning table, we'll discuss, and after few days, all will be normal. News reporters will have new cases to handle and we get busy with our stuffs.

Her life story, or we can say, struggled tale, is written in those old papers and old articles. True that, I too repeating the same. But, it's important to know that new crimes always include atleast one rape in every channels and papers when we read. Do you know, India is the third highest number of rape incidents, there are 98% cases include rape!!!! Is there any possibilities that it will not increase to 100% and decrease to 10 or 1%??

Yeah, Only if wild beings start to have positive intentions, think atleast once, and show some mankind, then surely, it will reduce on some day. Not as a human kind, but as a respect in mind for any woman, who can be a wife or mother or daughter in somebody's house. Also, the one who hides the crime is the second criminal. Please help the girl or lady if you see them in trouble, because you never know, your woman may be the next. Even, unity of girls can fight with them, so neither put your step back nor ignoring occurrences. Because of your one mistake, another Nirbhaya can be found dead, this time may be from your home. One help can change One Country to be the least rank in this list of crimes.

Choices And Taste To Decide

Let me ask you some weird questions. Honestly, how many girls/boys have you dated, or like girlfriends/boyfriends do you have right now, or how many pictures have you selected while arrange marriage discussion, I guess many girls/boys you judged before your love marriage? Woo-hoo, calm down, it's just a query which pinched you. Answer is,"lot many girls", right boys. "No, not really, I was depending on my parents because I believe them, they won't select wrong person for me", isn't that true girls.

We all live in one planet, but still He taste his choice first, then decide, and the other side, She decide her choice first, then taste. This is a very big difference. You know, why she agree with her parents or husband's decision? Why she behave as a dependent girl in this independent country? Can't she choose her own choice? Can't she taste her alternatives before her commitments? Why she nodded her head to yes for every directions you give? Is she scared of this world?? No. She is frightened from the talks done behind her. She is confused between the CHOICES & TASTE, and in between what TO DECIDE. When a Boy hangout with two or three girls, then his friends called him star or stud, which is not a big deal. But an issue arises, when a girl does the same with any guy, and known to be despicable. Waow, this is called "Discrimination in human mind".

C'mon, I am not saying He or She is different. But it's you who make differences. I am mature enough to finalize my goals. I can choose my own options. I need time to decide what's wrong or correct happening around me. But that doesn't mean, I commit any word for future. Every man will have 6-10 pictures of pretty girls in hand for arrange marriage, but how could he select her as a life partner from just a picture. So he decided to hangout with them, spend time and chilling out, but with other situation, girls never allowed to look his face before her marriage. Then, how/why she agreed!!! Only because she respect you, and in return, you have taken her as granted.

The word "Choices" or "Taste" will NOT let us know which one is for male and other for female. Likewise, favorites can be anything for anybody. For example, the colour don't hold any racism, pink can be a special one for any boy, as same as blue can be for girls. So owe your taste and choice, take time then show results, it is not only for girls but for boys too. We have right to choose the correct one for better response in future. And girls especially, don't hesitate to take decision, because it's you, who going to take care of your own life.

Being Me

When days are trying to end with tiredness, the only way I can finish it with peace sleep is to, relax in bed, phone in hand and articles in head, writing about the journey of delight. May be big or small, important is I am happy in my own way. There is space between other members, but still I love to give gaps between heart and brain. Once the width decreases, heart starts thinking and brain feels. The only solution helped for cross functionality is to work with assistant named as ME. That doesn't mean, I forget past or not worrying about future, but living in present will direct me to the destination with suffering roads.

It's better to understand myself, but it's great to detect flaws alone. Some are painful or may be hurting, more I go deep, I feel mature to live. I never thought to be expressive, but my errors teach me to be reasonable. Hurting is not a bad thing, until and unless heart say its wrong. Love is for Heart, sometimes brain play, when comes to be practical and professional. Some lives are not decided, but loved by Lord. Thankfully, he created me human, but unfortunately I load flaws, which cannot be seen. He filled good vibes, now I make sure to encourage the bad ones to leave a side. No one is perfect, but everyone can be unique. I was unique with some features, few are jealous, many are enemies. More I grow, more they increase. When I bored, I sit and hear. Many times, Hollywood, less time, Bollywood, motivated or inspired and loved respectively. This is me weird in and bold out. Difficult to notice, but never dare to judge blindly. I decide my personal goals with my ways to go. One step before, I scare, because never seen success to close to my hand. Eventually, the word limit became huge and the mixer of every thoughts in dream make me to wake up early morning. Routine can not be changed, but time for BEING ME can be managed. Only thing which will take me to the topmost peak is Me. So I have decided to protect, secure, handle, motivate, love and care, Because I want to be Together With Me.

Legend With 6S'

Sometimes he walk beside me when everything goes wrong around the world. Or maybe his prayers include me for open attitude and bright future. He was never there to step me up, but he stood next to the door where I decided to grow up. His dreams were not mine, but true, when it comes for my dreams. He was busy throughout the day, I never had a great evening with him. Sometimes I cry, bored and even, there were the time when I got distracted from my way, but he always motivated me so that my paths results the clear vision. Never being so appreciated, as after we met, this become a casual thing. He cried, demoralized, ignored, helpless, willing for good waves, but nobody cares about that person. All of them discouraged him while saying, he is just a normal man with a daily busy schedule, not having much time to spend with his love beings. True that, his wife thought me how to play with games, how to write letters, how to eat food with hands, but I will never forget, he brought those toys to enjoy, pencil to write and ingredients to eat.

Oh sorry, I didn't mention that man. Or I think it is not required to elaborate his name. You know that man, who works for his family, bear the struggles outside and share love inside the house. Maybe he doesn't show his emotions with others, but as his daughter, he always open up with me. Of course, he is my Ideal, a Luminary, my Dad.

I recollected that dancing doll, a jumping puppy and remote control cars, which I used to play, but today for the first time I noticed its price in online sites. Everyone is happy with those gifts which he brought, nobody questioned him, how he owned them. People only see him driving early in the mornings and arriving late in the evenings. Or Sometimes his duty shifts change his routine plan. But, never appreciated him for holding the balance between his wife and mom. They never asked him, is his life running alright, or suffering any trap of loans, or why he is pretending to be happy all the time.

I agree, there is always a close bond with my mom. But I always hug him when his tears fall and, heart become weak at any time. I'll always be for my hero who Suffered, Sacrificed, Struggled, Satisfied, Selfless, and Settled with and for his family. This proved him to be a champion for me. He is a LEGEND WITH 6S' for me and my family. I may not be able to write much about him, but I know as much as I love mom, I love him too. Whatever and however he assigned with this 6S' that captured the respect, but only rewards are not sufficient for him. I know those bad days still wander and upset him. I may not give my words to stop his nightmares. I'll never recall him that part of his life which ruined his half of his life. But, I promise, he will never deals with those 6S' again because I am gonna give him joy twice for every 'S'.

Honour is a great thing to him, but he want to endear. So love him, may be his attachments can be expressed in different way, or maybe he is not revealing it, but it's you who can understand because he expect a lot from you. And always remember the 6S', he was allocated with.

Can'ts And Cans

"Oh My God, look who is driving, a "Lady" !! Damn, she gonna hit somebody. Why government allow women to ride? These girls don't know how to drive. They accelerate without any control. Is she really know the meaning of gears or just showing off in the driver's seat. Man, slow down your bike beside her car, she may not be knowing how to handle brakes!! Who knows, She can take wrong side to overtake. Be careful boy, accidents may happen. And blah, blah, blah..." Many girls deal with this stuff, even I. Why men think we cannot drive? Seriously, I am actually fade up of this talks.

Hey you, if I can handle different people with different mind sets in the same roof, then why can't I deal with 2-4 wheels of same type and features. If I can remember where needy utensils like plates, cans, cups and saucers, different spoons, different spices, and many similar to that, also dresses in the wardrobe of every family members, or any of the little things in my house are placed, then why can't I remember only six gears in my car, as they are more small and simple to learn than those routine adjusting items. Moreover, if I can memorize many complicated settings in the latest electronic devices, then why can't I recognize the road tracks of my own way, which are more interesting than those advance updates. You may forgot that I can make dishes using so many colourful ingredients, then it's not a big issue to regulate brakes and accelerations with horns and indicators.

Dude, you know what, it is called envy. Yeah, you are jealous of my driving skill. Many accidents happened because of high accelerations in wrong path. Its never been the fault of brakes and bumps, but the blind mistakes done by you. Only difference is, You drive speedily, but I safely. Accelerators can be controlled, only when you ride in limits, but looses, when it crosses. Yes, I am showing off because of my independence, but many of you, for attentions and impressions. You should not be afraid to travel beside us, rather we sacred, because of unbalance in your brakes due to hurrying.

My CAN'TS And CANS are not decided by other people. So, cease demoralizing and commenting on me for not lifting the wheels on road, as I know, what is healthy riding with traffic rules and symbols. Instead of judging and discouraging us, turn your speedy drive to safety one. Because there's always someone waiting for you to come home after a very long and busy day, in between they never expect for something wrong happens to you. Let your next step to change the mentality regarding girls riding because you think she can't as she knew she can.

You Behind Me

When I was small, I never saw my daddy holding me in his arms. He never come to pick me up from my school. We never had meals together. I am not angry with him rather I am proud to say that he is an Army Officer. He stay with guns, bullets and bombs in his hand, protecting our Mother India. Whenever he leave the house for war, his expression always shows that he is very proud and confident that his home will never be in danger because his wife will secure everything. She is an army in my home and rest members will definitely be safe. She miss my daddy when I am not around, so that I never be sad. She never felt that she is alone. She always have faith that Whatever will be the case, daddy will be back and hug us. She taught me self defense with alphabets. She is the leader in my palace same as daddy in border. She sits near the door for the postman to bring daddy's letter. She reads the letter for me and eventually tears speak more. Her prayers for daddy to be alright and a tough and bold attitude for us. She always says me that we should be strong enough to hear every news come to us about daddy whether good or bad.

That one war was so terrible, which destroyed everything in the border line. Even ashes were mixed with sand. We were having our breakfast in the morning when the news reporter told that many army officers are killed, some are missing and rest are injured badly in the attack. I only saw one thing that she cried for the first time in front of me, still folding hands for good result. There was no letters, no calls, no news in couple of days regarding daddy, only believe made us alive everyday.

After 12-15 days, in the door we saw two officers standing and saluting. They were holding luggage of daddy but we couldn't find him with them. They were about to speak and my Mom started crying as she understood what they wanted to say. Then the ambassador arrive and the door opens, seeing daddy, made us more happy than surprise. With a huge relief, We had a family hug after long time. The only thing daddy says to my mom is "YOU will always be BEHIND ME, My Lady Army".

Festivals and Seasons doesn't matter, what important for them is to protect our Nation till last breath of life. There is always an Army behind every Army officers who protect the family members and made them hard. If you see them in some place, do respect them because she is the one who handles the army house and also nourish her Child to become another army officer after her husband. Because of them, we are safely enjoying with our family and celebrating special occasions. They deserve salute with respect.
!!!Jai Hind!!!

Little Stars

Nothing is new, because you know, The Moon & The Stars are always together and play hide & seek with hot sun. They easily go away before you wake up in Morning. But, have you ever thought why their togetherness is so strong only in night!!?? Are they behaving as two beautiful souls?? Why are they always seen together!!?? Well, with today's youth of new generation, I should say "they're committed" or like, maybe they're in a "serious relationship"!! Isn't that. Of course they are. Have you ever noticed their bond very carefully? If not, then today in night, lay down and try to notice them.

Huh, you might be thinking what foolish I'm talking. Yeah, about "the relationships" is strange or not required, but it's not the same gossip which is just chattering in your head and confusing about the article. True, I am here for relation, but it's between loyalty, love, care, help, & most important, humanity. The word "relationship" is a soul connections. These bonding maybe as strong as a heavy rock in mountains, or as soft as a cotton balls in gardens, or as special as love in hearts. By the way, for me, the sweetest relation is of mom and dad with their son and daughter. What do you think?? When I look up, saw the Moon as Dad, the nearest & shinning Star beside that as Mom and the rest small twinkling stars as sons and daughters.

But how many of you maintain the same as them in sky?? Do you know there are few who don't have parents as like you!! But there're many, who don't want to live with their parents. Really, it's very hard to hear that.

In big cities, both parent are working so they are mandatory to hire maid for their baby as a care taker, but they keep small town Childern for their needs, or in other way, small restaurants on Highway road corners like "dhabba" due to lack of labours, owner keep their sons and daughters for serving food and washing dishes. They make difficulties in Childern. Underage boys and girls are going to schools, but they are send for jobs. They are paid small amount and moreover, owners hit them, don't provide meals, pressurize them and scolding for every little mistakes, sometimes even more harsh. Children work because they didn't have enough income in their home. But Fortunately they don't hate their owners. Because they hate their parents who left them in an unknown house or let them doing hardwork just for earnings. They are upset because they are not able to enjoy like school going kids. You can't buy everything with dollars, but small area people sold Childern in big rupees. And here, we write slogans "Child Labour Is Banned" just for saying.

Sometimes, we sit and think everything is going fine with us, but there's always false happening with them in some corners of world. Most happiest over here is The Moon & The Stars, where Dad lights when dark appears and Mom protects when wrong happens. Truth is, "They are Immortal", this really don't happen in every house. If you want to create a change, then educate the LITTLE STARS who work, because they can't afford. Donate few cash, if not then, Teach Them new alphabets with a relationship of humanity.

Make It Easy

"Oh God, please help me, for once, next time I surely study hard, please God, pass me in this examination. Today my result is going to be out, don't let my parents down. Save me God, please!!"

How many of you do the same on your result day?  The person who never pray or believe God, will also trust on that day. Everyone, Right. In fact, I too did this in my whole life. But I make sure that my children will never thought to do this!! They will not pray for good results due to nervousness. They will not cry for bad percentage. I'll not be depressed or tensed mom to them, because of examination results. No, I am not against God, but against parents. Yes,  I am against every parents who are worried and depressed more than children. Your children don't believe in God or teachers, but in You. Parents have to change the mentality that they should not scold their child for marks. The fear of result will lead them to depression and then suicide.

This results are just a sheet of paper. They don't decide their future or capabilities. They just show their performance, and my dear, performance can be changed anytime. But, in between experiences will teach them a lot and help them to grasp. That's what is  required to every child. Educate them how to Learn the concepts and MAKE IT EASY. Grades will not matter but learning will let them know what, how, when, and where, this will rate more than marks.

Let me tell you something, Sachin Tendulkar,  a former cricketer and a great batsman, was failed by 6 marks in 12th standard. Today his marks doesn't count but scores in the field. On that result day, if he decided not to play cricket then today, he won't be standing with the award of Bharat Ratna.

Grades are also obtained to those who cheat in the examination, or who mug up the sentences just one night before the examination, but success reach to them who tried to Learn. Remember, one day people will ignore your percentage, but Skills are always appreciated.

My Everything

A God gifted lady named as Mother. Before l tell her,  She knew what's happening in my life. She smile when happiness come to her, but feels happy when I am enjoying the moment of happiness. She destroyed her dreams, so that she could feed me and encourage me to complete my dreams. She sacrifices everything so that I could gain everything in my life. She was not having enough money to buy small gifts for me in any special occasions, but still, she used to save her money which dad gave her for daily needs, only for my pending gifts. She Turned Her life not to be a wife, but to be a MOTHER. She handle my dad's family, but never blamed them for forgetting her own family.

Who said that she never cry?  Who said that she is a woman not so strong?  Who said that she is not paid for being a housewife? Who said that she should not work? Who said that she is  just a mother?

Yes, she is  just a woman. She is not so strong, because she hide her tears. Because she cried in the locked room. Because she came to my dad's house and forgot her own family. Because she heard every truth and lies from that unknown people who were not her family, but she made hers.

Yes, she is not paid any money for being a housewife, because she tried to gain her happiness, loyalty, care and love from her family, which is very precious than money. Yes, you are right, she should not work outside because it's not her life as after her marriage her life is not her but it's your now. Because if she works out there, she will disrespect your society.

Oh God, yes, she is my mother, who not only dream for my successful life but also dream that my life should not be same as her. She want that I should earn money with my work. She believed that we should not be dependent on any people, not even in our husband. She is the one who pray every day for my success. She is the one who made us eat, even when she is hungry.

Yes, my dad is being paid for his job, he earn money, but my mom had gained everything in life. She gain her happiness with her sorrow, her smile with her tears, her joy with my dreams, and yes, she gained everything with my everything. She never speak hard when something wrong or right  happens because she respects you, but if she does, then believe me she is in pain and she needs you beside her.

She is the one who wait for me to come in my weekends and vacations just to meet her. She is the one who shows her happiness with my favourite food in the lunch and dinner. She is the one listens to my school and college stories very peacefully and happily. She is the one who packed my suitcase when I am leaving. She is the one who calls me when I reached my hostel and scolds me when I skip my meals. She is MY EVERYTHING.

She pampered me a lot now it's my turn to take care of her.She lost everything just for me, so it's time to bring those everything back just for her. I respect her and salute her for being mother.

People say, "Behind every successful man, there's a woman"  but I'll change this thought to next level. I'll say, "Behind every successful person, there is always a MOTHER".

Never Quit

Rejection or depression, nowadays there is no difference between them  because when you are depressed you are rejected, or when you are rejected you get depressed.

Nothing left now, useless, depressed, hopeless, blamed myself, no new creations, no new ideas, every door of success was closed, dark future, it's all over, and so on... Unlimited thoughts were there in my mind, when I was rejected everytime, almost everyday, but that doesn't mean I am done with my life. Actually, that means I have just  started my life with my ideas.

Doesn't matter if my ideas are similar with others, atleast I have tried one level up from my comfort zone. Now, It's time to show my next higher level which will force you to hire me  with my ideas. This time my ideas will touch the heaven.

Doesn't matter if I Lose one chance to win, still many more are yet to come. The game of success is not about winning or losing, but it's about who will reach the top of the peak either 1st or 2nd. Always remember, one day I will definitely WIN, until and unless "I NEVER QUIT".

Possibly, You and I will reach the same highest point at same time, leaving all huddles behind, struggling with different crossways which lead to success, and on the other hand believing our destiny and building our hopes. But, only difference between YOU & I is, I Learn how to win from my REJECTIONS and You learn how to win from your ATTITUDES.

Life Taught Me One Thing-- "Accept Rejections and Never Quit".

Yes, I am a GIRL

Do you like short stories!?  Wanna hear me?  OK.  I'll tell you  one story-

"This story belongs to a sweet and simple girl living in a small town. Every evening she use to go coachings and reach home at 9. She prefer cycle for this. One night while returning back to home she found that her cycle tyre was burst. She thought of going back home by walking. It's been too late. Some drunk men caught that girl in the dark. She tried to run away but she was very far from her house. They tried to pull her and touched her in a very wrong way. But she couldn't protect herself. That night turn into nightmare for her because she was raped and left alone beside the road corner. She any how managed to reach home. At mid night, her parents were worried, tensed and waiting for her to come back soon. When the door opens, they spoke so loudly & the drops came from their eyes like shower. But The case was hidden about what happened to her because they want to maintain their reputation in the society. Thus, the matter was closed and everyone trying to forget that incident." 

Does this story made your Goosebumps Stand..!! Yes, this is common in every road corner nowadays and We'll never take a stand for a victim due to this so called "reputation". Let me know, What will this reputation do if she was killed. Is your reputation more important than your daughter? 

Well, Do you know who I am?  Many People will answer that I am a Girl. Yes, I am. But They stop me doing what I want to, what I wish to. They stop me wearing shorts, sleeveless, backless, down shoulders, hot pants etc, and because this all will attract those boys and made them think something wrong. Why are they stopping  me, only because of those boys sitting outside my house will comment on me or if I will be alone in the bus then the man or the conductor will rape me, or if I'll go like this in the club party then the  men who were drunk will abuse me or flirt me and made them think something wrong or attempt any, or if I took a stand for the victims, the very next day, they will throw acid on me. If you're like this kind of people who stop their mother, sister, wife and daughter to go out and stand up alone because of these wrong people then I should say "shit". Let me tell you guys who the hell are you to decide what she want to do and what she wish to have. Who are you to say what she should wear. You have rights to speak, but not the nuisance like this. You can't stop her to live her own life. Why are you stopping a girl or a woman?  Stop the Men Not the Women. 

In fact, it's better to say, why are we wasting our time to improve HIS mentality rather we should improve HER courage & confidence. Why in this technical or digital world, she hope for a device that will protect her from these wild humans?  Why today she is feeling so insecure to move out alone?  Why she is afraid to share her problems with other people? Why she need a company of true and strong person while travelling? Why only women have to listen?  

Isn't that so strange, in this world especially in India, a girl walking with a guy is known to be characterless or a girl talking to a boy in a phone calls more than 15 minutes said that he is her boyfriend. Why are men in the clubs drunk but one sip of a wine by a girl is being abused?  Why she is not allowed for a night out?  Why is that so..? 

From today, I'll say... 

Yes, I am a GIRL.I am a WOMAN, a MOTHER, a WIFE and a DAUGHTER. 

And I'm not here to listen what people will say. I'm not here to keep my mouth shut if something wrong happens. I will walk on those road corners in dark with full of courage and confidence. Because I am not afraid of those men who throw acid on me. I will fight back to those who try to touch me. Remember, 

"The utensils she use to make Food can be used as a WEAPON if she decided to fight back and stand all alone. The QUEEN inside the house can be the KING outside. And Yes, SHE is a WOMAN."

Dreams

To live your dreams...  

We have to go against everything,anything n anyone in your life... 

It's true...  

To live your dreams... 

You have to be against your loved ones.. 

Loved ones can be your friends, your family or your close ones because

they will not support you in your way if they don't want you to do that... 

But trust me...  

Once you win in your dreams.. 

Once you fulfil your dreams.. 

Once you stand up without their support.. 

Once you get popular in our own way..  

This loved people... Yes.. Your loved people will love you more... 

Have proud to have you.. Will care you more..  Will support you in anyway.. 

But it's you who have to 

faith in yourself...  

believe in yourself... 

trust in yourself... 

more spirit in yourself... 

Just say.. 

You can do it.. You will do it.. You have to do it... 

just only because they don't want you to do this... just only because you have to prove yourself once.. 

During this time of your life... 

Many people will hate you.. 

Many will pull you down.. 

Many will prove you wrong.. 

But don't give up..  Keep moving...  

The journey is not easy but is possible... 

But.. May possible that

The one who love you will hate you.. 

The one who care you will leave you.. 

The one who trust you will not support you.. 

The one who believe you will discourage you.. 

But.. For once Keep your emotions side n move silently ignoring them.. 

Yes it's difficult but only for the dreams...  

This is me..  

I kept silence.. Always smiling.. Enjoying the moment..  

But actually want to live my dreams.. 

YES,It's my dream..