She For Her

A Woman is an enemy of A Woman. Is that true? While walking down the streets, I saw a group of five boys sitting on the bikes at corner of the road. They were staring at me, and then, they started commenting weird and vulgar things on me. On the other side of the road, I saw two women standing in the balcony, gossiping and having fun. When boys continued, those ladies changed their gossip topics to my dressing sense. What I heard was, they are chattering about girls should not wear these kinds of Western stuffs, those hot pants, crop shirts, backless tops, etc showing skiny body which attracts the boys on road sides. I know there are many, almost every girls, suffered catcalling. But, my question is, Who are actually wrong here, the girls wearing western clothes or the boys doing catcalling?? No friends, the women sitting and gossiping about the girls are wrong, the women seeing the incident and ignoring them is wrong, the women knowing the fact that this will happen to a girl and still kept a silence is wrong, because dress sense will not attract catcalling boys, rather, a wrong step from another women will definitely provoke those stupids to carry on with their entertaining work.

What we are finding to be safe is the Unity. But, a girl cannot trust an unknown man/boy standing beside, rather she will move to an unknown lady/girl on the other side. Why, because she knew that she will be atleast secure with a woman than a man. I don't know about you girls, but I generally do the same when I feel something wrong with any guy. From here, what I learn is "Unity Can Be Found Among Group Of Girls". A man can be bodyguards, a strong gentle person, or handsome guy. But, the only thing girl will not accept him is because she will never trust him. Instead, she would believe a weak lady with a bamboo stick, or a housekeeper with a slippers in her hand, for protection. I know, this is little bit funny. But, You keep yourself in my place and think twice, whom would you girls believe?

Am I wrong? No, exactly. Now the point comes, what is the common solution for these kind of problems? It's simple. Just prove the first statement of these article as WRONG. A woman should Support a woman. Not only in these catcalling situation, but also in other jobs like, in a house relationships between two different aged women, or it might be in office where a lady boss screaming under pressure, a women should understand her well in every complicated situation. A Woman can NOT be an enemy of A Woman. This is true, and if not, then make this true.

Think What if, the lady standing in the balcony shout to those boys commenting on a girl, or, a women employee make other employees understand that their lady boss is in pressure, or like typical ladies fight in almost every house between a women and her mother-in-law (like in hindi, "saas or bahut ke jhagde"), a mother-in-law should support her in doings and a women should understand her old age thinking, and alot more. This is what known to be SHE FOR HER. Thus, these create a unity among girls, which will make others thing twice before doing wrong.