Mom being Girl Again

You know what, I got busy in my work. As I grow up, my daily work increases. I tried to skip my meals more often a day. Sometimes, my refrigerator went empty and I forgot to bring some groceries after my work. Sometimes, I'm late for office just because sleeping little more for 1 hour instead of just 5 minutes. I got used to when my mom wake me up for my school, then college, but not now. It seems my life goes disbalanced without her. Everything become so unsystematic. Moreover, whenever I used to be with my mom, sometimes it feels me that, if I wouldn't be with her then, she would have less work to do. But, I never knew, she was even more stressed and tensed, when I lived away from home. 50+ messages from Only One Chat, Mom. 5+ missed calls from Only One Name, Home. That time I realized, whether she lived with me or not, her mind constantly working for me.

My mom wants to be a teacher for nursery school children. Because she love small kids playing and talking. Thats why she never scolded me for talking like babies in front of her. Well, I couldn't give her admission to that school because it's not her age to go and work. But, one thing I can do is making a room for small kids in the house itself. When she was small, she used to have that room, which she named it as "Cuties Hall". I want my mom to start again all those thing she was doing when she was a girl. I gifted a camera to my dad, so that he could capture all those moments of mom being girl again. Further, told him to frame the beautiful ones and hang it on the walls. So that she could always remember her days beginning at this stage of life.

Friends, she is the only one who gives everything to you. Support her to live her own life. She become so busy with our work, that she forgot to be a Girl Again. She left the girlish behavior in her old house. Bring those moments back to her, so that she could smile same the way she was in her early pimples. She might be an artist, or a singer, maybe dancer, or may be a photographer. Or maybe, you might not knowing about what she really is. Bring those interests and her hobbies back to road, so that it could drive her life happily and with no worries. What are you thinking? Well, I've decided to make her girl again. What about you? I wanna see how my Mom behaving like Girl in those early days. Be the change in her life.

Fall In Love

Fall in love with MIRROR
Showing Real You Behind Fake,
Fall in love with SUN
Showing Brighter side After dark Night,
Fall in love with MOON
Showing Ray of hope in cloudy sky,
Fall in love with STARS
Showing Shine in the black,
Fall in love with HORIZONS
Showing every unexpected things meet ultimately,
Fall in love with ANIMALS
Showing true love so effectively than humans,
Fall in love with NATURE
Showing attraction without being biased,
Fall in love with LIFE
Showing chapters of struggle and happiness of success,
Fall in love with those who deserves to be loved,
With your heart to another heart,
With inner souls to create soulmates,
Love unconditionally and unexpectedly,
Falling in love is Not just loving, but also, living in love,
Love only to EXPRESS, not to IMPRESS,
Because it doesn't require any language. So, Keep falling in love.

Break The Silence

Too much.. It's too much..
For how long you are going to just see the crime raining on you. You are only responsible for what you are being now. So stand up, not for them, but for you, and just for yourself. Because you are allowing them to do all those nuisance from your silence. Just stop it.. stop the silence. Speak up, Stand up. C'mon, it's the time. Not now, then never again.

What? Are you thinking that I'm harsh? Exactly, I'm bold. And it's necessary. Because people are taking advantage of every silence and take us granted. Specially, the men outside waiting for the next crime. I know you are not able to understand what I am speaking about. Who the men are? What exactly the crime is? Simple, the men are the men and the crime is the silence. And the silence is of girls,  which ultimately destroy their livings.

You know what, I'm a girl, a strong enough. Whenever I saw men/boys staring at me because of my look or my dress or my figure or anything else of mine, I stare them back. I never lose the eye contact until and unless they put their eyes down. If they can Stare me, I can too. If a boy passes the wrong or vulgar comment, then I use the bold words to reply them in their way of speaking. I don't hesitate to do the same as they did. If a man touch me from his fingers without knowing anybody, then I turn around, break those dirty fingers and let all know how powerful I am. If somebody touches my private parts without my permission, then I'll kick their private parts knowingly. However, these is Me and want to be like these forever. Forever, till the situation changes around me. And, not only me, girls should be like this, so that they get scared of us.

Well, it's your choice to be silent. You were silent for your freedom, peace, livings, maturity, health, money, and what not. Crime is common now, but the repeated crime is not common. The only way to stop the crime is to fight back with breaking your silence. And, once you break it, make sure, you break it hard. This break will definitely change the movements happening with you. Just hit them large so that they forget doing that again. Time to do it Hard on Breaking it large.

Time

If time is in your favour, you are the most powerful in the universe. It's not about having time. It's about making the best use of time. You should always remember some important things about it.
1. Lost time is never found again.
2. Time is the only capital of yours.
3. Time is a symbol of genius.
4. Time never delays but you may.
5. Time rules our livings.
6. Time guides our plan.
7. Time makes your balance sheet.
8. Time trains to react.
9. Time is a fantastic healer.
10. Time can never be earned.
11. Time is a companion.
12. Time changes the situation.
13. Time brings revolution.
14. Time comes to those, who waits.
15. Time teaches to be patient.
16. Time will give you the result.
17. Time is a great teacher.
18. Time should be spent wisely.
19. Time management is important.
20. Time is free, but priceless.
Thus, yesterday is a cancelled check, Tomorrow is a promissory note, Today is the only cash you have, so value your time.

Staircase

Start is always difficult.
But once you get started
You can maintain your consistency
It's hard to lift your leg for the first time
But, It's easy when done usually
Every single step is unknown
It may be big one, or may be wrong
May be broad, May be narrow
May possible that it's hollow
But, you cannot judge before taking the step
Just try it for once
Perhaps, it's your good choice
May be it lead to new hope or new life.
Doesn't matter if you chose wrong stairs
Put your legs one stair down,
And start it all again
Because nothing is new now.
Every difficult ones will be the best ones
As you never know which one is difficult.
Wrong step will teach a lesson
On the other hand,
Best step will give a success.
Lesson and Success are the chapters of your life
Turn the page for every case.
Never stop doing, Just moving
No need to Skip, Just go in
Either you Fail or Win
That something is better than nothing.
Every stairs has a new case,
So it's Staircase.

Actually, I can

Yes, it will Hurt me.
Painful for me.
Spoil me completely.
But, some or the other day I will win.
They tease me today for being different.
Tomorrow will be different again,
And this time, it will be mine Day.
Why they are so similar?
Thinking this made me somewhat non-identical.
My Goals are private.
But, I know, these will one day give my name in big curtain.
Fame is Nobody's Aim.
What we gain, is only the game.
Game has only two choice, either win or sometimes fail.
Its OK dear.
Another Day, Another Hope
A New Start to catch the Same Train
Now, with New Way.
Oh Actually, I can.
I can do the things right.
I can change the world's mind.
I can change that fear of mine.
I can achieve goals with all my ploys.
I can, Yes, I am going to do that.
So what, if they are different.
Different are not always Difficult.
But, Different are always Definite.
And, Definite will lead to Destiny.
Eventually, Destiny equalize Success.
Here, when I'll stop chasing to be different.
Ultimately, success will be my answer to those who said I can't.
But, I can.
No, Actually I did.
And, This is it.

I am a Struggler

What is Failure? Am I a failure? Is this a end of my life? Will you please explain me the word "Failure"? No other chance to win!! No other option to move forward!! Really, Am I lost everything? Yes, I am upset, and may be Depressed too. Exactly, I don't know which type of feeling is this. I am confused with my life. I don't know what's going in my mind. I think these may only be the symptoms of failing. In my childhood, I have learned in science that every symptoms can be cured. So I think, Failing is not the reason to be like this always.

Due to this, I never spoke to my belongings. Because I know they'll react as if, there is no chance to win. But, I know the only aspect to success is Trying and it may possible that One Try failed many times. So what, there are other ways to try. Atleast, Failure means I have tried once. These kind of thinking is issued in today's world, but, what about our parents, and relatives, and people in our so-called society, they still believe, that one attempt, if you loss, then, no need to continue with second chance, because failure means failure, just waste of chances.

Sometimes, failure is the only option to become successful. Every successful man failed for once to achieve dreams. If people say, "You are a Failure" then, I'll stand up and shout loud that "I am a Struggler, not a Failure". After all, it's true that one day I will be on top of them, I will be on the peak point, not because I have failed or I am a Failure. But because, I am still struggling. Nothing harm to make my soul understand that I can do that what I am able to see in my dreams, as those dreams are mine, they cannot see them. I know which path will take me there, because I know how to make my paths clear. Have faith my dear heart, one day I will do that, and, I'll definitely win this war.

She For Her

A Woman is an enemy of A Woman. Is that true? While walking down the streets, I saw a group of five boys sitting on the bikes at corner of the road. They were staring at me, and then, they started commenting weird and vulgar things on me. On the other side of the road, I saw two women standing in the balcony, gossiping and having fun. When boys continued, those ladies changed their gossip topics to my dressing sense. What I heard was, they are chattering about girls should not wear these kinds of Western stuffs, those hot pants, crop shirts, backless tops, etc showing skiny body which attracts the boys on road sides. I know there are many, almost every girls, suffered catcalling. But, my question is, Who are actually wrong here, the girls wearing western clothes or the boys doing catcalling?? No friends, the women sitting and gossiping about the girls are wrong, the women seeing the incident and ignoring them is wrong, the women knowing the fact that this will happen to a girl and still kept a silence is wrong, because dress sense will not attract catcalling boys, rather, a wrong step from another women will definitely provoke those stupids to carry on with their entertaining work.

What we are finding to be safe is the Unity. But, a girl cannot trust an unknown man/boy standing beside, rather she will move to an unknown lady/girl on the other side. Why, because she knew that she will be atleast secure with a woman than a man. I don't know about you girls, but I generally do the same when I feel something wrong with any guy. From here, what I learn is "Unity Can Be Found Among Group Of Girls". A man can be bodyguards, a strong gentle person, or handsome guy. But, the only thing girl will not accept him is because she will never trust him. Instead, she would believe a weak lady with a bamboo stick, or a housekeeper with a slippers in her hand, for protection. I know, this is little bit funny. But, You keep yourself in my place and think twice, whom would you girls believe?

Am I wrong? No, exactly. Now the point comes, what is the common solution for these kind of problems? It's simple. Just prove the first statement of these article as WRONG. A woman should Support a woman. Not only in these catcalling situation, but also in other jobs like, in a house relationships between two different aged women, or it might be in office where a lady boss screaming under pressure, a women should understand her well in every complicated situation. A Woman can NOT be an enemy of A Woman. This is true, and if not, then make this true.

Think What if, the lady standing in the balcony shout to those boys commenting on a girl, or, a women employee make other employees understand that their lady boss is in pressure, or like typical ladies fight in almost every house between a women and her mother-in-law (like in hindi, "saas or bahut ke jhagde"), a mother-in-law should support her in doings and a women should understand her old age thinking, and alot more. This is what known to be SHE FOR HER. Thus, these create a unity among girls, which will make others thing twice before doing wrong.

Is She Really SMILING

People outside the four walls see her smiling and laughing, never knew that what she feels inside the room. She loves to chat with her friends in her life, but after reaching home she might not be able to see a single friend around. She tried to make people laugh beside her, but does anyone knew that she couldn't able to make a single person smile in that room.

Nobody knows, from where she learn to stay happy, who taught her to be a laughing budha in everybody's life. She wished everyone to stay happy and she only pray for their blessings. But, I think there are few who really care for her. I don't know why she pretend to be happy all days and every morning, her pillow speaks on the behave of her tears. She lives with four other people, but cries only in dark when nobody able to watch her out.

These may be strange that, people beside her always say her that how she's able to manage with life stuffs? Is she not dealing with problems.. Any problems? Really? How does she handle with difficulties? For all those questions, she reply only once and always she answers the same for all, that is, "When complications arrive, I Smile slowly and speak to myself that SMILE is the only way I cope up with all those things in my life". Nobody believes her, but that's true, she says, smiling gives her strength and laughing make her believe that yes, she can do and it's almost done baby, have patience to reach the end of it.

She sometimes sad, may be in worse situation, still she'll be there for anyone whom she cared alot. Because she knew that, her happiness and smile may give a strength and joy to anyone. May be she need someone who always be there for her standing just beside her and always make her remember that Girl, you can cry in front of me, nobody is here to listen you. You might be thinking what about people living with her? They don't care?

Yup, she lives with her mother, who always says that every smile has tears so be careful while laughing alot. She has a brother, who never ever smile, he is just opposite to her. He never tried to smile, she feels bad looking her that brothers can be like this also. One is her grandmother, who never loved her, because she is girl child or maybe, she is a daughter of a housekeeper, or maybe something else, which she might not knowing. And also, her father, who tried to make her smile, but never supports her in anyway. She is the only one in the family who makes everyone smile for once, but nobody does the same.

There are many in the world, almost everyone, dealing with some or the other problems, but you should not ignore someone's smile and laugh who gives you little joy frequently. If nobody put a smile on your face then you have your own put that one always. Because that original one is more prettier than fake ones. This is the Real Smile. Wear Your Smile baby, not your Ego. If you concluded that this girl might be me, then let me tell you, it's wrong. She may be same as me, but not me.

Well, what I am going to say next will make you shock or may be speechless. The thing is this girl is being adopted by those people whom she called a family for outsider. They brought her home only because they need a housekeeper. And yes, she is the one, treated as maid. And she cannot speak to anyone due to fear. It's not like that, she went school and now in college, rest thinking for better future too, and may be more after that, but she lives like a servant in her own so-called house. So friends, never say anyone, not to laugh or smile because you might not be knowing her smile may suffers many tears in the dark. Rather, make them smile and Try To Help them because they are scared of speaking forward.

Way Of Affection

"Today, I kissed my dad on the forehead as he passed away in a small hospital bed. About 5 seconds after he passed, I realized it was the first time I had given him a kiss since I was a little."

There are so many affection which we forget to return before leaving the world. Dad was the first one to kiss my forehead when I was born, now I am the last one in his death. I become so busy in my life that I forget those people who gave me first smile and first step to stand. Today, I am sad, thinking that I would have made my dad to smile little more. When I was kid, he used to hug me in my every worse and best condition, but as I grow up, I forgot to return that hug when he needs the more.

Still there are many things to be done, but always get things with them who helped you to put those in your life. In the other way, stay with them who taught you how to stay, not only living in one house, but with affection sharing even if, in different rooms. They need love, in return of love. I know, it's not too late, starting from now may change rest of their tomorrows.

True that there are many things I wanna do with them (with my mom and dad), but, nobody can describe time for anyone. So, I just wanna say that, "Sorry to them, for everything till now, that may hurt you just because of me", but from now, love is all around. My first love will always be remembered with a smile. Affections are always beautiful when they are returning. I'm going to make all those beautiful things to be happen in their upcoming part of life.

I will always be there to hug them when they are sad, always be there to kiss their forehead when they feel tensed. I will change the WAY OF AFFECTION turning towards them. So as apply to you too,think to be the hero for your dad and a sister for your mom, after that see the change happening all around.