Closed Senses

Sitting and staring outside window is something just common in everyone's life. When we are sad, happy, romantic or any other mood, we generally do this. We have senses to see, hear and breathe. Also a pumping heart, but unfortunately, no feelings. You're wrong, emotions and feelings are two different things. Emotions can be your feelings, but reverse is false. Generally, we say, "feeling happy" not "happy feeling", or "feeling better" not "better feeling", and rest all. This shows that feelings always lead your emotions. Also, "happy", "sad", "good", "bad", "romantic", "sick", etc are the moods of emotions, these are not your feelings. For feelings, you do not require such emotions and senses. But, for emotions, you do require some feelings.

Hey, listen, neither feelings nor emotions, but my today's topic is Senses. Not the opened one, but that CLOSED SENSES. I mean, the senses which can see without eye, hear without ear, pump without original heart. Yes, there are many who are surviving without any beautiful eyes, or any audible ears, also, few with temporary hearts to pump for countable days. They do not want a window to see outside, not worried about weathers to hear some rain drops, they just count the heartbeats which is equivalent to their livable hours.

Strange, we all have this, but are useless without feelings. For me, feelings are something which makes your heart skip one beat. With that One touch of wind may feel you to recognize the current weather, One action can feel the words of music. Senses are something that can create those invisible to visible, or simply give colours in life. You have eyes, you have hands, also the ears and the legs, still complaining about that life. But, few are happy without eyes, because they don't want to see these corrupted world or criminals all around, don't wanna hear those bad words or slangs used to shame every mother and sister. They are enjoying having nothing.

Yeah, Right, what else you can do, sitting and reading many articles like this!!?? It's not your fault that they are disabled. But, it's your biggest mistake, if you never thought of donating any senses. In future, your bodies will buried or burnt containing most of the senses, that are still working. What if you donate them!! I am actually confused about your decision, but I am sure for mine. Not only eyes, but also my heart, I am gonna donate both after my death, to the helpless people and make them realize that there are many who are not offenders, and have feelings in heart. If you really wanna help me, then help them, because they need it, even if they pretend to be happy having none. And, I'll be happy, if the title is proved wrong, let the closed become the opened ones.

Only Curve

I used to play with her in my childhood days. She comb my hairs, dress me up with beautiful forks. Visiting my house was very frequent, she drive me to right ways. Taught me good habits which I still remember. Her sons treat me like my real big Brothers. My weekends spend with them was so wonderful. I never knew that the moments used up with her will disappear so easily. Those days will become just a sweet memories was really unexpected to be so little. Not my friend, not my Mom, but very close to that. She is my Aunt, I call her Badi Mummy.

You might be thinking, why I started talking about her with no cause. Wrong, there is a huge reason, a wild ache behind this lady. Not only she, but many more, and so few cure. She was suffering from Cancer, and some years back, she died. This is common, but the person started dieing early, when they heard the word "cancer", due to depression and heart broken. Don't die thinking that you will be no more tomorrows, but die living every moments happily, thinking you may not have any tomorrows. The more you stay happy, more the injury secure. The more you smile, more healthier you become. So start living now, may be no harmful yesterday will follow tomorrow, but if we stay happy today may be this leads to live you one more day.

Admiring a person may cause little smile in heart, but caring and helping them, will make you happy, while seeing them smiling. Victim never thought of having diseases and die soon, but best medicine to live long is your Natural Smile. Not only cancer, but many suffer from Aids or may be any harmful diseases. You never know what may happen in future, may be death by accident or any diseases, or old age problem, but the only thing you can promise to yourself is to smile in any condition, because you know that, smile is the ONLY CURVE which will never leave alone in this world. You just have to make this curve large enough to spend everyday.

May possible that you will be dieing tomorrow, but today living with your smile will never regret you, of not stayed happily yesterday. My request to every people, especially those victims, is stay happy today to live your tomorrow, otherwise die today, without wasting your time with that precious smile.

Hanged Till Death

16 December, 2012; it's been 4.5 years to that case. Do you still remember that night when this incident happened? That night made the whole country to come on road with candles and shouting for justice!! Do you still remember that girl who was named as "Nirbhaya"? 

This fake name given by seeing her strength. Yes, she was very strong to fight for her life from wild beings. She was raped and almost murdered, thrown in the road side. You know what, even the Dog protect his master, because he give him food to eat and place to live, but they'll never hurt us. Even animals knew what is humanity, humans never understand this word. Those beings should left her atleast in the sake of it. She tried a lot to protect herself, but as we say, every princess require a prince to support or to fight with those terrible creatures, unfortunately they killed him before.

5th May, 2017; still the case was on and today, it is finally been closed after the justice. The court declared that the four will be HANGED TILL DEATH. All prayers come true and that parents boldly stand up in the fight of their daughter. Today, India is in relief. Really?

What about tomorrow? Do you still remember the case or the lady? Do this incident will not repeat again? Who's fault it was? The men or the girl? Exactly, No one will memorize it again. Or, this same incident cannot be stopped again. The month after the case and after the justice will only be seen in every newspapers and channels, even in the dinning table, we'll discuss, and after few days, all will be normal. News reporters will have new cases to handle and we get busy with our stuffs.

Her life story, or we can say, struggled tale, is written in those old papers and old articles. True that, I too repeating the same. But, it's important to know that new crimes always include atleast one rape in every channels and papers when we read. Do you know, India is the third highest number of rape incidents, there are 98% cases include rape!!!! Is there any possibilities that it will not increase to 100% and decrease to 10 or 1%??

Yeah, Only if wild beings start to have positive intentions, think atleast once, and show some mankind, then surely, it will reduce on some day. Not as a human kind, but as a respect in mind for any woman, who can be a wife or mother or daughter in somebody's house. Also, the one who hides the crime is the second criminal. Please help the girl or lady if you see them in trouble, because you never know, your woman may be the next. Even, unity of girls can fight with them, so neither put your step back nor ignoring occurrences. Because of your one mistake, another Nirbhaya can be found dead, this time may be from your home. One help can change One Country to be the least rank in this list of crimes.

Choices And Taste To Decide

Let me ask you some weird questions. Honestly, how many girls/boys have you dated, or like girlfriends/boyfriends do you have right now, or how many pictures have you selected while arrange marriage discussion, I guess many girls/boys you judged before your love marriage? Woo-hoo, calm down, it's just a query which pinched you. Answer is,"lot many girls", right boys. "No, not really, I was depending on my parents because I believe them, they won't select wrong person for me", isn't that true girls.

We all live in one planet, but still He taste his choice first, then decide, and the other side, She decide her choice first, then taste. This is a very big difference. You know, why she agree with her parents or husband's decision? Why she behave as a dependent girl in this independent country? Can't she choose her own choice? Can't she taste her alternatives before her commitments? Why she nodded her head to yes for every directions you give? Is she scared of this world?? No. She is frightened from the talks done behind her. She is confused between the CHOICES & TASTE, and in between what TO DECIDE. When a Boy hangout with two or three girls, then his friends called him star or stud, which is not a big deal. But an issue arises, when a girl does the same with any guy, and known to be despicable. Waow, this is called "Discrimination in human mind".

C'mon, I am not saying He or She is different. But it's you who make differences. I am mature enough to finalize my goals. I can choose my own options. I need time to decide what's wrong or correct happening around me. But that doesn't mean, I commit any word for future. Every man will have 6-10 pictures of pretty girls in hand for arrange marriage, but how could he select her as a life partner from just a picture. So he decided to hangout with them, spend time and chilling out, but with other situation, girls never allowed to look his face before her marriage. Then, how/why she agreed!!! Only because she respect you, and in return, you have taken her as granted.

The word "Choices" or "Taste" will NOT let us know which one is for male and other for female. Likewise, favorites can be anything for anybody. For example, the colour don't hold any racism, pink can be a special one for any boy, as same as blue can be for girls. So owe your taste and choice, take time then show results, it is not only for girls but for boys too. We have right to choose the correct one for better response in future. And girls especially, don't hesitate to take decision, because it's you, who going to take care of your own life.

Being Me

When days are trying to end with tiredness, the only way I can finish it with peace sleep is to, relax in bed, phone in hand and articles in head, writing about the journey of delight. May be big or small, important is I am happy in my own way. There is space between other members, but still I love to give gaps between heart and brain. Once the width decreases, heart starts thinking and brain feels. The only solution helped for cross functionality is to work with assistant named as ME. That doesn't mean, I forget past or not worrying about future, but living in present will direct me to the destination with suffering roads.

It's better to understand myself, but it's great to detect flaws alone. Some are painful or may be hurting, more I go deep, I feel mature to live. I never thought to be expressive, but my errors teach me to be reasonable. Hurting is not a bad thing, until and unless heart say its wrong. Love is for Heart, sometimes brain play, when comes to be practical and professional. Some lives are not decided, but loved by Lord. Thankfully, he created me human, but unfortunately I load flaws, which cannot be seen. He filled good vibes, now I make sure to encourage the bad ones to leave a side. No one is perfect, but everyone can be unique. I was unique with some features, few are jealous, many are enemies. More I grow, more they increase. When I bored, I sit and hear. Many times, Hollywood, less time, Bollywood, motivated or inspired and loved respectively. This is me weird in and bold out. Difficult to notice, but never dare to judge blindly. I decide my personal goals with my ways to go. One step before, I scare, because never seen success to close to my hand. Eventually, the word limit became huge and the mixer of every thoughts in dream make me to wake up early morning. Routine can not be changed, but time for BEING ME can be managed. Only thing which will take me to the topmost peak is Me. So I have decided to protect, secure, handle, motivate, love and care, Because I want to be Together With Me.

Legend With 6S'

Sometimes he walk beside me when everything goes wrong around the world. Or maybe his prayers include me for open attitude and bright future. He was never there to step me up, but he stood next to the door where I decided to grow up. His dreams were not mine, but true, when it comes for my dreams. He was busy throughout the day, I never had a great evening with him. Sometimes I cry, bored and even, there were the time when I got distracted from my way, but he always motivated me so that my paths results the clear vision. Never being so appreciated, as after we met, this become a casual thing. He cried, demoralized, ignored, helpless, willing for good waves, but nobody cares about that person. All of them discouraged him while saying, he is just a normal man with a daily busy schedule, not having much time to spend with his love beings. True that, his wife thought me how to play with games, how to write letters, how to eat food with hands, but I will never forget, he brought those toys to enjoy, pencil to write and ingredients to eat.

Oh sorry, I didn't mention that man. Or I think it is not required to elaborate his name. You know that man, who works for his family, bear the struggles outside and share love inside the house. Maybe he doesn't show his emotions with others, but as his daughter, he always open up with me. Of course, he is my Ideal, a Luminary, my Dad.

I recollected that dancing doll, a jumping puppy and remote control cars, which I used to play, but today for the first time I noticed its price in online sites. Everyone is happy with those gifts which he brought, nobody questioned him, how he owned them. People only see him driving early in the mornings and arriving late in the evenings. Or Sometimes his duty shifts change his routine plan. But, never appreciated him for holding the balance between his wife and mom. They never asked him, is his life running alright, or suffering any trap of loans, or why he is pretending to be happy all the time.

I agree, there is always a close bond with my mom. But I always hug him when his tears fall and, heart become weak at any time. I'll always be for my hero who Suffered, Sacrificed, Struggled, Satisfied, Selfless, and Settled with and for his family. This proved him to be a champion for me. He is a LEGEND WITH 6S' for me and my family. I may not be able to write much about him, but I know as much as I love mom, I love him too. Whatever and however he assigned with this 6S' that captured the respect, but only rewards are not sufficient for him. I know those bad days still wander and upset him. I may not give my words to stop his nightmares. I'll never recall him that part of his life which ruined his half of his life. But, I promise, he will never deals with those 6S' again because I am gonna give him joy twice for every 'S'.

Honour is a great thing to him, but he want to endear. So love him, may be his attachments can be expressed in different way, or maybe he is not revealing it, but it's you who can understand because he expect a lot from you. And always remember the 6S', he was allocated with.

Can'ts And Cans

"Oh My God, look who is driving, a "Lady" !! Damn, she gonna hit somebody. Why government allow women to ride? These girls don't know how to drive. They accelerate without any control. Is she really know the meaning of gears or just showing off in the driver's seat. Man, slow down your bike beside her car, she may not be knowing how to handle brakes!! Who knows, She can take wrong side to overtake. Be careful boy, accidents may happen. And blah, blah, blah..." Many girls deal with this stuff, even I. Why men think we cannot drive? Seriously, I am actually fade up of this talks.

Hey you, if I can handle different people with different mind sets in the same roof, then why can't I deal with 2-4 wheels of same type and features. If I can remember where needy utensils like plates, cans, cups and saucers, different spoons, different spices, and many similar to that, also dresses in the wardrobe of every family members, or any of the little things in my house are placed, then why can't I remember only six gears in my car, as they are more small and simple to learn than those routine adjusting items. Moreover, if I can memorize many complicated settings in the latest electronic devices, then why can't I recognize the road tracks of my own way, which are more interesting than those advance updates. You may forgot that I can make dishes using so many colourful ingredients, then it's not a big issue to regulate brakes and accelerations with horns and indicators.

Dude, you know what, it is called envy. Yeah, you are jealous of my driving skill. Many accidents happened because of high accelerations in wrong path. Its never been the fault of brakes and bumps, but the blind mistakes done by you. Only difference is, You drive speedily, but I safely. Accelerators can be controlled, only when you ride in limits, but looses, when it crosses. Yes, I am showing off because of my independence, but many of you, for attentions and impressions. You should not be afraid to travel beside us, rather we sacred, because of unbalance in your brakes due to hurrying.

My CAN'TS And CANS are not decided by other people. So, cease demoralizing and commenting on me for not lifting the wheels on road, as I know, what is healthy riding with traffic rules and symbols. Instead of judging and discouraging us, turn your speedy drive to safety one. Because there's always someone waiting for you to come home after a very long and busy day, in between they never expect for something wrong happens to you. Let your next step to change the mentality regarding girls riding because you think she can't as she knew she can.

You Behind Me

When I was small, I never saw my daddy holding me in his arms. He never come to pick me up from my school. We never had meals together. I am not angry with him rather I am proud to say that he is an Army Officer. He stay with guns, bullets and bombs in his hand, protecting our Mother India. Whenever he leave the house for war, his expression always shows that he is very proud and confident that his home will never be in danger because his wife will secure everything. She is an army in my home and rest members will definitely be safe. She miss my daddy when I am not around, so that I never be sad. She never felt that she is alone. She always have faith that Whatever will be the case, daddy will be back and hug us. She taught me self defense with alphabets. She is the leader in my palace same as daddy in border. She sits near the door for the postman to bring daddy's letter. She reads the letter for me and eventually tears speak more. Her prayers for daddy to be alright and a tough and bold attitude for us. She always says me that we should be strong enough to hear every news come to us about daddy whether good or bad.

That one war was so terrible, which destroyed everything in the border line. Even ashes were mixed with sand. We were having our breakfast in the morning when the news reporter told that many army officers are killed, some are missing and rest are injured badly in the attack. I only saw one thing that she cried for the first time in front of me, still folding hands for good result. There was no letters, no calls, no news in couple of days regarding daddy, only believe made us alive everyday.

After 12-15 days, in the door we saw two officers standing and saluting. They were holding luggage of daddy but we couldn't find him with them. They were about to speak and my Mom started crying as she understood what they wanted to say. Then the ambassador arrive and the door opens, seeing daddy, made us more happy than surprise. With a huge relief, We had a family hug after long time. The only thing daddy says to my mom is "YOU will always be BEHIND ME, My Lady Army".

Festivals and Seasons doesn't matter, what important for them is to protect our Nation till last breath of life. There is always an Army behind every Army officers who protect the family members and made them hard. If you see them in some place, do respect them because she is the one who handles the army house and also nourish her Child to become another army officer after her husband. Because of them, we are safely enjoying with our family and celebrating special occasions. They deserve salute with respect.
!!!Jai Hind!!!

Little Stars

Nothing is new, because you know, The Moon & The Stars are always together and play hide & seek with hot sun. They easily go away before you wake up in Morning. But, have you ever thought why their togetherness is so strong only in night!!?? Are they behaving as two beautiful souls?? Why are they always seen together!!?? Well, with today's youth of new generation, I should say "they're committed" or like, maybe they're in a "serious relationship"!! Isn't that. Of course they are. Have you ever noticed their bond very carefully? If not, then today in night, lay down and try to notice them.

Huh, you might be thinking what foolish I'm talking. Yeah, about "the relationships" is strange or not required, but it's not the same gossip which is just chattering in your head and confusing about the article. True, I am here for relation, but it's between loyalty, love, care, help, & most important, humanity. The word "relationship" is a soul connections. These bonding maybe as strong as a heavy rock in mountains, or as soft as a cotton balls in gardens, or as special as love in hearts. By the way, for me, the sweetest relation is of mom and dad with their son and daughter. What do you think?? When I look up, saw the Moon as Dad, the nearest & shinning Star beside that as Mom and the rest small twinkling stars as sons and daughters.

But how many of you maintain the same as them in sky?? Do you know there are few who don't have parents as like you!! But there're many, who don't want to live with their parents. Really, it's very hard to hear that.

In big cities, both parent are working so they are mandatory to hire maid for their baby as a care taker, but they keep small town Childern for their needs, or in other way, small restaurants on Highway road corners like "dhabba" due to lack of labours, owner keep their sons and daughters for serving food and washing dishes. They make difficulties in Childern. Underage boys and girls are going to schools, but they are send for jobs. They are paid small amount and moreover, owners hit them, don't provide meals, pressurize them and scolding for every little mistakes, sometimes even more harsh. Children work because they didn't have enough income in their home. But Fortunately they don't hate their owners. Because they hate their parents who left them in an unknown house or let them doing hardwork just for earnings. They are upset because they are not able to enjoy like school going kids. You can't buy everything with dollars, but small area people sold Childern in big rupees. And here, we write slogans "Child Labour Is Banned" just for saying.

Sometimes, we sit and think everything is going fine with us, but there's always false happening with them in some corners of world. Most happiest over here is The Moon & The Stars, where Dad lights when dark appears and Mom protects when wrong happens. Truth is, "They are Immortal", this really don't happen in every house. If you want to create a change, then educate the LITTLE STARS who work, because they can't afford. Donate few cash, if not then, Teach Them new alphabets with a relationship of humanity.

Make It Easy

"Oh God, please help me, for once, next time I surely study hard, please God, pass me in this examination. Today my result is going to be out, don't let my parents down. Save me God, please!!"

How many of you do the same on your result day?  The person who never pray or believe God, will also trust on that day. Everyone, Right. In fact, I too did this in my whole life. But I make sure that my children will never thought to do this!! They will not pray for good results due to nervousness. They will not cry for bad percentage. I'll not be depressed or tensed mom to them, because of examination results. No, I am not against God, but against parents. Yes,  I am against every parents who are worried and depressed more than children. Your children don't believe in God or teachers, but in You. Parents have to change the mentality that they should not scold their child for marks. The fear of result will lead them to depression and then suicide.

This results are just a sheet of paper. They don't decide their future or capabilities. They just show their performance, and my dear, performance can be changed anytime. But, in between experiences will teach them a lot and help them to grasp. That's what is  required to every child. Educate them how to Learn the concepts and MAKE IT EASY. Grades will not matter but learning will let them know what, how, when, and where, this will rate more than marks.

Let me tell you something, Sachin Tendulkar,  a former cricketer and a great batsman, was failed by 6 marks in 12th standard. Today his marks doesn't count but scores in the field. On that result day, if he decided not to play cricket then today, he won't be standing with the award of Bharat Ratna.

Grades are also obtained to those who cheat in the examination, or who mug up the sentences just one night before the examination, but success reach to them who tried to Learn. Remember, one day people will ignore your percentage, but Skills are always appreciated.