Legend With 6S'

Sometimes he walk beside me when everything goes wrong around the world. Or maybe his prayers include me for open attitude and bright future. He was never there to step me up, but he stood next to the door where I decided to grow up. His dreams were not mine, but true, when it comes for my dreams. He was busy throughout the day, I never had a great evening with him. Sometimes I cry, bored and even, there were the time when I got distracted from my way, but he always motivated me so that my paths results the clear vision. Never being so appreciated, as after we met, this become a casual thing. He cried, demoralized, ignored, helpless, willing for good waves, but nobody cares about that person. All of them discouraged him while saying, he is just a normal man with a daily busy schedule, not having much time to spend with his love beings. True that, his wife thought me how to play with games, how to write letters, how to eat food with hands, but I will never forget, he brought those toys to enjoy, pencil to write and ingredients to eat.

Oh sorry, I didn't mention that man. Or I think it is not required to elaborate his name. You know that man, who works for his family, bear the struggles outside and share love inside the house. Maybe he doesn't show his emotions with others, but as his daughter, he always open up with me. Of course, he is my Ideal, a Luminary, my Dad.

I recollected that dancing doll, a jumping puppy and remote control cars, which I used to play, but today for the first time I noticed its price in online sites. Everyone is happy with those gifts which he brought, nobody questioned him, how he owned them. People only see him driving early in the mornings and arriving late in the evenings. Or Sometimes his duty shifts change his routine plan. But, never appreciated him for holding the balance between his wife and mom. They never asked him, is his life running alright, or suffering any trap of loans, or why he is pretending to be happy all the time.

I agree, there is always a close bond with my mom. But I always hug him when his tears fall and, heart become weak at any time. I'll always be for my hero who Suffered, Sacrificed, Struggled, Satisfied, Selfless, and Settled with and for his family. This proved him to be a champion for me. He is a LEGEND WITH 6S' for me and my family. I may not be able to write much about him, but I know as much as I love mom, I love him too. Whatever and however he assigned with this 6S' that captured the respect, but only rewards are not sufficient for him. I know those bad days still wander and upset him. I may not give my words to stop his nightmares. I'll never recall him that part of his life which ruined his half of his life. But, I promise, he will never deals with those 6S' again because I am gonna give him joy twice for every 'S'.

Honour is a great thing to him, but he want to endear. So love him, may be his attachments can be expressed in different way, or maybe he is not revealing it, but it's you who can understand because he expect a lot from you. And always remember the 6S', he was allocated with.

Can'ts And Cans

"Oh My God, look who is driving, a "Lady" !! Damn, she gonna hit somebody. Why government allow women to ride? These girls don't know how to drive. They accelerate without any control. Is she really know the meaning of gears or just showing off in the driver's seat. Man, slow down your bike beside her car, she may not be knowing how to handle brakes!! Who knows, She can take wrong side to overtake. Be careful boy, accidents may happen. And blah, blah, blah..." Many girls deal with this stuff, even I. Why men think we cannot drive? Seriously, I am actually fade up of this talks.

Hey you, if I can handle different people with different mind sets in the same roof, then why can't I deal with 2-4 wheels of same type and features. If I can remember where needy utensils like plates, cans, cups and saucers, different spoons, different spices, and many similar to that, also dresses in the wardrobe of every family members, or any of the little things in my house are placed, then why can't I remember only six gears in my car, as they are more small and simple to learn than those routine adjusting items. Moreover, if I can memorize many complicated settings in the latest electronic devices, then why can't I recognize the road tracks of my own way, which are more interesting than those advance updates. You may forgot that I can make dishes using so many colourful ingredients, then it's not a big issue to regulate brakes and accelerations with horns and indicators.

Dude, you know what, it is called envy. Yeah, you are jealous of my driving skill. Many accidents happened because of high accelerations in wrong path. Its never been the fault of brakes and bumps, but the blind mistakes done by you. Only difference is, You drive speedily, but I safely. Accelerators can be controlled, only when you ride in limits, but looses, when it crosses. Yes, I am showing off because of my independence, but many of you, for attentions and impressions. You should not be afraid to travel beside us, rather we sacred, because of unbalance in your brakes due to hurrying.

My CAN'TS And CANS are not decided by other people. So, cease demoralizing and commenting on me for not lifting the wheels on road, as I know, what is healthy riding with traffic rules and symbols. Instead of judging and discouraging us, turn your speedy drive to safety one. Because there's always someone waiting for you to come home after a very long and busy day, in between they never expect for something wrong happens to you. Let your next step to change the mentality regarding girls riding because you think she can't as she knew she can.

You Behind Me

When I was small, I never saw my daddy holding me in his arms. He never come to pick me up from my school. We never had meals together. I am not angry with him rather I am proud to say that he is an Army Officer. He stay with guns, bullets and bombs in his hand, protecting our Mother India. Whenever he leave the house for war, his expression always shows that he is very proud and confident that his home will never be in danger because his wife will secure everything. She is an army in my home and rest members will definitely be safe. She miss my daddy when I am not around, so that I never be sad. She never felt that she is alone. She always have faith that Whatever will be the case, daddy will be back and hug us. She taught me self defense with alphabets. She is the leader in my palace same as daddy in border. She sits near the door for the postman to bring daddy's letter. She reads the letter for me and eventually tears speak more. Her prayers for daddy to be alright and a tough and bold attitude for us. She always says me that we should be strong enough to hear every news come to us about daddy whether good or bad.

That one war was so terrible, which destroyed everything in the border line. Even ashes were mixed with sand. We were having our breakfast in the morning when the news reporter told that many army officers are killed, some are missing and rest are injured badly in the attack. I only saw one thing that she cried for the first time in front of me, still folding hands for good result. There was no letters, no calls, no news in couple of days regarding daddy, only believe made us alive everyday.

After 12-15 days, in the door we saw two officers standing and saluting. They were holding luggage of daddy but we couldn't find him with them. They were about to speak and my Mom started crying as she understood what they wanted to say. Then the ambassador arrive and the door opens, seeing daddy, made us more happy than surprise. With a huge relief, We had a family hug after long time. The only thing daddy says to my mom is "YOU will always be BEHIND ME, My Lady Army".

Festivals and Seasons doesn't matter, what important for them is to protect our Nation till last breath of life. There is always an Army behind every Army officers who protect the family members and made them hard. If you see them in some place, do respect them because she is the one who handles the army house and also nourish her Child to become another army officer after her husband. Because of them, we are safely enjoying with our family and celebrating special occasions. They deserve salute with respect.
!!!Jai Hind!!!

Little Stars

Nothing is new, because you know, The Moon & The Stars are always together and play hide & seek with hot sun. They easily go away before you wake up in Morning. But, have you ever thought why their togetherness is so strong only in night!!?? Are they behaving as two beautiful souls?? Why are they always seen together!!?? Well, with today's youth of new generation, I should say "they're committed" or like, maybe they're in a "serious relationship"!! Isn't that. Of course they are. Have you ever noticed their bond very carefully? If not, then today in night, lay down and try to notice them.

Huh, you might be thinking what foolish I'm talking. Yeah, about "the relationships" is strange or not required, but it's not the same gossip which is just chattering in your head and confusing about the article. True, I am here for relation, but it's between loyalty, love, care, help, & most important, humanity. The word "relationship" is a soul connections. These bonding maybe as strong as a heavy rock in mountains, or as soft as a cotton balls in gardens, or as special as love in hearts. By the way, for me, the sweetest relation is of mom and dad with their son and daughter. What do you think?? When I look up, saw the Moon as Dad, the nearest & shinning Star beside that as Mom and the rest small twinkling stars as sons and daughters.

But how many of you maintain the same as them in sky?? Do you know there are few who don't have parents as like you!! But there're many, who don't want to live with their parents. Really, it's very hard to hear that.

In big cities, both parent are working so they are mandatory to hire maid for their baby as a care taker, but they keep small town Childern for their needs, or in other way, small restaurants on Highway road corners like "dhabba" due to lack of labours, owner keep their sons and daughters for serving food and washing dishes. They make difficulties in Childern. Underage boys and girls are going to schools, but they are send for jobs. They are paid small amount and moreover, owners hit them, don't provide meals, pressurize them and scolding for every little mistakes, sometimes even more harsh. Children work because they didn't have enough income in their home. But Fortunately they don't hate their owners. Because they hate their parents who left them in an unknown house or let them doing hardwork just for earnings. They are upset because they are not able to enjoy like school going kids. You can't buy everything with dollars, but small area people sold Childern in big rupees. And here, we write slogans "Child Labour Is Banned" just for saying.

Sometimes, we sit and think everything is going fine with us, but there's always false happening with them in some corners of world. Most happiest over here is The Moon & The Stars, where Dad lights when dark appears and Mom protects when wrong happens. Truth is, "They are Immortal", this really don't happen in every house. If you want to create a change, then educate the LITTLE STARS who work, because they can't afford. Donate few cash, if not then, Teach Them new alphabets with a relationship of humanity.

Make It Easy

"Oh God, please help me, for once, next time I surely study hard, please God, pass me in this examination. Today my result is going to be out, don't let my parents down. Save me God, please!!"

How many of you do the same on your result day?  The person who never pray or believe God, will also trust on that day. Everyone, Right. In fact, I too did this in my whole life. But I make sure that my children will never thought to do this!! They will not pray for good results due to nervousness. They will not cry for bad percentage. I'll not be depressed or tensed mom to them, because of examination results. No, I am not against God, but against parents. Yes,  I am against every parents who are worried and depressed more than children. Your children don't believe in God or teachers, but in You. Parents have to change the mentality that they should not scold their child for marks. The fear of result will lead them to depression and then suicide.

This results are just a sheet of paper. They don't decide their future or capabilities. They just show their performance, and my dear, performance can be changed anytime. But, in between experiences will teach them a lot and help them to grasp. That's what is  required to every child. Educate them how to Learn the concepts and MAKE IT EASY. Grades will not matter but learning will let them know what, how, when, and where, this will rate more than marks.

Let me tell you something, Sachin Tendulkar,  a former cricketer and a great batsman, was failed by 6 marks in 12th standard. Today his marks doesn't count but scores in the field. On that result day, if he decided not to play cricket then today, he won't be standing with the award of Bharat Ratna.

Grades are also obtained to those who cheat in the examination, or who mug up the sentences just one night before the examination, but success reach to them who tried to Learn. Remember, one day people will ignore your percentage, but Skills are always appreciated.

My Everything

A God gifted lady named as Mother. Before l tell her,  She knew what's happening in my life. She smile when happiness come to her, but feels happy when I am enjoying the moment of happiness. She destroyed her dreams, so that she could feed me and encourage me to complete my dreams. She sacrifices everything so that I could gain everything in my life. She was not having enough money to buy small gifts for me in any special occasions, but still, she used to save her money which dad gave her for daily needs, only for my pending gifts. She Turned Her life not to be a wife, but to be a MOTHER. She handle my dad's family, but never blamed them for forgetting her own family.

Who said that she never cry?  Who said that she is a woman not so strong?  Who said that she is not paid for being a housewife? Who said that she should not work? Who said that she is  just a mother?

Yes, she is  just a woman. She is not so strong, because she hide her tears. Because she cried in the locked room. Because she came to my dad's house and forgot her own family. Because she heard every truth and lies from that unknown people who were not her family, but she made hers.

Yes, she is not paid any money for being a housewife, because she tried to gain her happiness, loyalty, care and love from her family, which is very precious than money. Yes, you are right, she should not work outside because it's not her life as after her marriage her life is not her but it's your now. Because if she works out there, she will disrespect your society.

Oh God, yes, she is my mother, who not only dream for my successful life but also dream that my life should not be same as her. She want that I should earn money with my work. She believed that we should not be dependent on any people, not even in our husband. She is the one who pray every day for my success. She is the one who made us eat, even when she is hungry.

Yes, my dad is being paid for his job, he earn money, but my mom had gained everything in life. She gain her happiness with her sorrow, her smile with her tears, her joy with my dreams, and yes, she gained everything with my everything. She never speak hard when something wrong or right  happens because she respects you, but if she does, then believe me she is in pain and she needs you beside her.

She is the one who wait for me to come in my weekends and vacations just to meet her. She is the one who shows her happiness with my favourite food in the lunch and dinner. She is the one listens to my school and college stories very peacefully and happily. She is the one who packed my suitcase when I am leaving. She is the one who calls me when I reached my hostel and scolds me when I skip my meals. She is MY EVERYTHING.

She pampered me a lot now it's my turn to take care of her.She lost everything just for me, so it's time to bring those everything back just for her. I respect her and salute her for being mother.

People say, "Behind every successful man, there's a woman"  but I'll change this thought to next level. I'll say, "Behind every successful person, there is always a MOTHER".

Never Quit

Rejection or depression, nowadays there is no difference between them  because when you are depressed you are rejected, or when you are rejected you get depressed.

Nothing left now, useless, depressed, hopeless, blamed myself, no new creations, no new ideas, every door of success was closed, dark future, it's all over, and so on... Unlimited thoughts were there in my mind, when I was rejected everytime, almost everyday, but that doesn't mean I am done with my life. Actually, that means I have just  started my life with my ideas.

Doesn't matter if my ideas are similar with others, atleast I have tried one level up from my comfort zone. Now, It's time to show my next higher level which will force you to hire me  with my ideas. This time my ideas will touch the heaven.

Doesn't matter if I Lose one chance to win, still many more are yet to come. The game of success is not about winning or losing, but it's about who will reach the top of the peak either 1st or 2nd. Always remember, one day I will definitely WIN, until and unless "I NEVER QUIT".

Possibly, You and I will reach the same highest point at same time, leaving all huddles behind, struggling with different crossways which lead to success, and on the other hand believing our destiny and building our hopes. But, only difference between YOU & I is, I Learn how to win from my REJECTIONS and You learn how to win from your ATTITUDES.

Life Taught Me One Thing-- "Accept Rejections and Never Quit".

Yes, I am a GIRL

Do you like short stories!?  Wanna hear me?  OK.  I'll tell you  one story-

"This story belongs to a sweet and simple girl living in a small town. Every evening she use to go coachings and reach home at 9. She prefer cycle for this. One night while returning back to home she found that her cycle tyre was burst. She thought of going back home by walking. It's been too late. Some drunk men caught that girl in the dark. She tried to run away but she was very far from her house. They tried to pull her and touched her in a very wrong way. But she couldn't protect herself. That night turn into nightmare for her because she was raped and left alone beside the road corner. She any how managed to reach home. At mid night, her parents were worried, tensed and waiting for her to come back soon. When the door opens, they spoke so loudly & the drops came from their eyes like shower. But The case was hidden about what happened to her because they want to maintain their reputation in the society. Thus, the matter was closed and everyone trying to forget that incident." 

Does this story made your Goosebumps Stand..!! Yes, this is common in every road corner nowadays and We'll never take a stand for a victim due to this so called "reputation". Let me know, What will this reputation do if she was killed. Is your reputation more important than your daughter? 

Well, Do you know who I am?  Many People will answer that I am a Girl. Yes, I am. But They stop me doing what I want to, what I wish to. They stop me wearing shorts, sleeveless, backless, down shoulders, hot pants etc, and because this all will attract those boys and made them think something wrong. Why are they stopping  me, only because of those boys sitting outside my house will comment on me or if I will be alone in the bus then the man or the conductor will rape me, or if I'll go like this in the club party then the  men who were drunk will abuse me or flirt me and made them think something wrong or attempt any, or if I took a stand for the victims, the very next day, they will throw acid on me. If you're like this kind of people who stop their mother, sister, wife and daughter to go out and stand up alone because of these wrong people then I should say "shit". Let me tell you guys who the hell are you to decide what she want to do and what she wish to have. Who are you to say what she should wear. You have rights to speak, but not the nuisance like this. You can't stop her to live her own life. Why are you stopping a girl or a woman?  Stop the Men Not the Women. 

In fact, it's better to say, why are we wasting our time to improve HIS mentality rather we should improve HER courage & confidence. Why in this technical or digital world, she hope for a device that will protect her from these wild humans?  Why today she is feeling so insecure to move out alone?  Why she is afraid to share her problems with other people? Why she need a company of true and strong person while travelling? Why only women have to listen?  

Isn't that so strange, in this world especially in India, a girl walking with a guy is known to be characterless or a girl talking to a boy in a phone calls more than 15 minutes said that he is her boyfriend. Why are men in the clubs drunk but one sip of a wine by a girl is being abused?  Why she is not allowed for a night out?  Why is that so..? 

From today, I'll say... 

Yes, I am a GIRL.I am a WOMAN, a MOTHER, a WIFE and a DAUGHTER. 

And I'm not here to listen what people will say. I'm not here to keep my mouth shut if something wrong happens. I will walk on those road corners in dark with full of courage and confidence. Because I am not afraid of those men who throw acid on me. I will fight back to those who try to touch me. Remember, 

"The utensils she use to make Food can be used as a WEAPON if she decided to fight back and stand all alone. The QUEEN inside the house can be the KING outside. And Yes, SHE is a WOMAN."

Dreams

To live your dreams...  

We have to go against everything,anything n anyone in your life... 

It's true...  

To live your dreams... 

You have to be against your loved ones.. 

Loved ones can be your friends, your family or your close ones because

they will not support you in your way if they don't want you to do that... 

But trust me...  

Once you win in your dreams.. 

Once you fulfil your dreams.. 

Once you stand up without their support.. 

Once you get popular in our own way..  

This loved people... Yes.. Your loved people will love you more... 

Have proud to have you.. Will care you more..  Will support you in anyway.. 

But it's you who have to 

faith in yourself...  

believe in yourself... 

trust in yourself... 

more spirit in yourself... 

Just say.. 

You can do it.. You will do it.. You have to do it... 

just only because they don't want you to do this... just only because you have to prove yourself once.. 

During this time of your life... 

Many people will hate you.. 

Many will pull you down.. 

Many will prove you wrong.. 

But don't give up..  Keep moving...  

The journey is not easy but is possible... 

But.. May possible that

The one who love you will hate you.. 

The one who care you will leave you.. 

The one who trust you will not support you.. 

The one who believe you will discourage you.. 

But.. For once Keep your emotions side n move silently ignoring them.. 

Yes it's difficult but only for the dreams...  

This is me..  

I kept silence.. Always smiling.. Enjoying the moment..  

But actually want to live my dreams.. 

YES,It's my dream..