Staircase

Start is always difficult.
But once you get started
You can maintain your consistency
It's hard to lift your leg for the first time
But, It's easy when done usually
Every single step is unknown
It may be big one, or may be wrong
May be broad, May be narrow
May possible that it's hollow
But, you cannot judge before taking the step
Just try it for once
Perhaps, it's your good choice
May be it lead to new hope or new life.
Doesn't matter if you chose wrong stairs
Put your legs one stair down,
And start it all again
Because nothing is new now.
Every difficult ones will be the best ones
As you never know which one is difficult.
Wrong step will teach a lesson
On the other hand,
Best step will give a success.
Lesson and Success are the chapters of your life
Turn the page for every case.
Never stop doing, Just moving
No need to Skip, Just go in
Either you Fail or Win
That something is better than nothing.
Every stairs has a new case,
So it's Staircase.

Actually, I can

Yes, it will Hurt me.
Painful for me.
Spoil me completely.
But, some or the other day I will win.
They tease me today for being different.
Tomorrow will be different again,
And this time, it will be mine Day.
Why they are so similar?
Thinking this made me somewhat non-identical.
My Goals are private.
But, I know, these will one day give my name in big curtain.
Fame is Nobody's Aim.
What we gain, is only the game.
Game has only two choice, either win or sometimes fail.
Its OK dear.
Another Day, Another Hope
A New Start to catch the Same Train
Now, with New Way.
Oh Actually, I can.
I can do the things right.
I can change the world's mind.
I can change that fear of mine.
I can achieve goals with all my ploys.
I can, Yes, I am going to do that.
So what, if they are different.
Different are not always Difficult.
But, Different are always Definite.
And, Definite will lead to Destiny.
Eventually, Destiny equalize Success.
Here, when I'll stop chasing to be different.
Ultimately, success will be my answer to those who said I can't.
But, I can.
No, Actually I did.
And, This is it.

I am a Struggler

What is Failure? Am I a failure? Is this a end of my life? Will you please explain me the word "Failure"? No other chance to win!! No other option to move forward!! Really, Am I lost everything? Yes, I am upset, and may be Depressed too. Exactly, I don't know which type of feeling is this. I am confused with my life. I don't know what's going in my mind. I think these may only be the symptoms of failing. In my childhood, I have learned in science that every symptoms can be cured. So I think, Failing is not the reason to be like this always.

Due to this, I never spoke to my belongings. Because I know they'll react as if, there is no chance to win. But, I know the only aspect to success is Trying and it may possible that One Try failed many times. So what, there are other ways to try. Atleast, Failure means I have tried once. These kind of thinking is issued in today's world, but, what about our parents, and relatives, and people in our so-called society, they still believe, that one attempt, if you loss, then, no need to continue with second chance, because failure means failure, just waste of chances.

Sometimes, failure is the only option to become successful. Every successful man failed for once to achieve dreams. If people say, "You are a Failure" then, I'll stand up and shout loud that "I am a Struggler, not a Failure". After all, it's true that one day I will be on top of them, I will be on the peak point, not because I have failed or I am a Failure. But because, I am still struggling. Nothing harm to make my soul understand that I can do that what I am able to see in my dreams, as those dreams are mine, they cannot see them. I know which path will take me there, because I know how to make my paths clear. Have faith my dear heart, one day I will do that, and, I'll definitely win this war.

She For Her

A Woman is an enemy of A Woman. Is that true? While walking down the streets, I saw a group of five boys sitting on the bikes at corner of the road. They were staring at me, and then, they started commenting weird and vulgar things on me. On the other side of the road, I saw two women standing in the balcony, gossiping and having fun. When boys continued, those ladies changed their gossip topics to my dressing sense. What I heard was, they are chattering about girls should not wear these kinds of Western stuffs, those hot pants, crop shirts, backless tops, etc showing skiny body which attracts the boys on road sides. I know there are many, almost every girls, suffered catcalling. But, my question is, Who are actually wrong here, the girls wearing western clothes or the boys doing catcalling?? No friends, the women sitting and gossiping about the girls are wrong, the women seeing the incident and ignoring them is wrong, the women knowing the fact that this will happen to a girl and still kept a silence is wrong, because dress sense will not attract catcalling boys, rather, a wrong step from another women will definitely provoke those stupids to carry on with their entertaining work.

What we are finding to be safe is the Unity. But, a girl cannot trust an unknown man/boy standing beside, rather she will move to an unknown lady/girl on the other side. Why, because she knew that she will be atleast secure with a woman than a man. I don't know about you girls, but I generally do the same when I feel something wrong with any guy. From here, what I learn is "Unity Can Be Found Among Group Of Girls". A man can be bodyguards, a strong gentle person, or handsome guy. But, the only thing girl will not accept him is because she will never trust him. Instead, she would believe a weak lady with a bamboo stick, or a housekeeper with a slippers in her hand, for protection. I know, this is little bit funny. But, You keep yourself in my place and think twice, whom would you girls believe?

Am I wrong? No, exactly. Now the point comes, what is the common solution for these kind of problems? It's simple. Just prove the first statement of these article as WRONG. A woman should Support a woman. Not only in these catcalling situation, but also in other jobs like, in a house relationships between two different aged women, or it might be in office where a lady boss screaming under pressure, a women should understand her well in every complicated situation. A Woman can NOT be an enemy of A Woman. This is true, and if not, then make this true.

Think What if, the lady standing in the balcony shout to those boys commenting on a girl, or, a women employee make other employees understand that their lady boss is in pressure, or like typical ladies fight in almost every house between a women and her mother-in-law (like in hindi, "saas or bahut ke jhagde"), a mother-in-law should support her in doings and a women should understand her old age thinking, and alot more. This is what known to be SHE FOR HER. Thus, these create a unity among girls, which will make others thing twice before doing wrong.

Is She Really SMILING

People outside the four walls see her smiling and laughing, never knew that what she feels inside the room. She loves to chat with her friends in her life, but after reaching home she might not be able to see a single friend around. She tried to make people laugh beside her, but does anyone knew that she couldn't able to make a single person smile in that room.

Nobody knows, from where she learn to stay happy, who taught her to be a laughing budha in everybody's life. She wished everyone to stay happy and she only pray for their blessings. But, I think there are few who really care for her. I don't know why she pretend to be happy all days and every morning, her pillow speaks on the behave of her tears. She lives with four other people, but cries only in dark when nobody able to watch her out.

These may be strange that, people beside her always say her that how she's able to manage with life stuffs? Is she not dealing with problems.. Any problems? Really? How does she handle with difficulties? For all those questions, she reply only once and always she answers the same for all, that is, "When complications arrive, I Smile slowly and speak to myself that SMILE is the only way I cope up with all those things in my life". Nobody believes her, but that's true, she says, smiling gives her strength and laughing make her believe that yes, she can do and it's almost done baby, have patience to reach the end of it.

She sometimes sad, may be in worse situation, still she'll be there for anyone whom she cared alot. Because she knew that, her happiness and smile may give a strength and joy to anyone. May be she need someone who always be there for her standing just beside her and always make her remember that Girl, you can cry in front of me, nobody is here to listen you. You might be thinking what about people living with her? They don't care?

Yup, she lives with her mother, who always says that every smile has tears so be careful while laughing alot. She has a brother, who never ever smile, he is just opposite to her. He never tried to smile, she feels bad looking her that brothers can be like this also. One is her grandmother, who never loved her, because she is girl child or maybe, she is a daughter of a housekeeper, or maybe something else, which she might not knowing. And also, her father, who tried to make her smile, but never supports her in anyway. She is the only one in the family who makes everyone smile for once, but nobody does the same.

There are many in the world, almost everyone, dealing with some or the other problems, but you should not ignore someone's smile and laugh who gives you little joy frequently. If nobody put a smile on your face then you have your own put that one always. Because that original one is more prettier than fake ones. This is the Real Smile. Wear Your Smile baby, not your Ego. If you concluded that this girl might be me, then let me tell you, it's wrong. She may be same as me, but not me.

Well, what I am going to say next will make you shock or may be speechless. The thing is this girl is being adopted by those people whom she called a family for outsider. They brought her home only because they need a housekeeper. And yes, she is the one, treated as maid. And she cannot speak to anyone due to fear. It's not like that, she went school and now in college, rest thinking for better future too, and may be more after that, but she lives like a servant in her own so-called house. So friends, never say anyone, not to laugh or smile because you might not be knowing her smile may suffers many tears in the dark. Rather, make them smile and Try To Help them because they are scared of speaking forward.

Way Of Affection

"Today, I kissed my dad on the forehead as he passed away in a small hospital bed. About 5 seconds after he passed, I realized it was the first time I had given him a kiss since I was a little."

There are so many affection which we forget to return before leaving the world. Dad was the first one to kiss my forehead when I was born, now I am the last one in his death. I become so busy in my life that I forget those people who gave me first smile and first step to stand. Today, I am sad, thinking that I would have made my dad to smile little more. When I was kid, he used to hug me in my every worse and best condition, but as I grow up, I forgot to return that hug when he needs the more.

Still there are many things to be done, but always get things with them who helped you to put those in your life. In the other way, stay with them who taught you how to stay, not only living in one house, but with affection sharing even if, in different rooms. They need love, in return of love. I know, it's not too late, starting from now may change rest of their tomorrows.

True that there are many things I wanna do with them (with my mom and dad), but, nobody can describe time for anyone. So, I just wanna say that, "Sorry to them, for everything till now, that may hurt you just because of me", but from now, love is all around. My first love will always be remembered with a smile. Affections are always beautiful when they are returning. I'm going to make all those beautiful things to be happen in their upcoming part of life.

I will always be there to hug them when they are sad, always be there to kiss their forehead when they feel tensed. I will change the WAY OF AFFECTION turning towards them. So as apply to you too,think to be the hero for your dad and a sister for your mom, after that see the change happening all around.

POWER Of UNIQUENESS

Today, I asked my mentor – a very successful business man in his 70’s – what his top 3 tips are for success. He smiled and said, “Read something no one else is reading, think something no one else is thinking, and do something no one else is doing".

The above lines, I read in whatsapp as one of the Forwarded message. These lines forced me to express more, and my mind started thinking that, being different is not wrong, except, being common is actually very common. True, that mentor taught me something which I wanna do it in my life. I have being studying in college since 2015, still I am aimless till the end of my second year of journey. Every student joined a common cochin and got focused, they decided what to do and what to achieve. It's me, who was waiting for any marvellous opportunity to come, so that I should give a path to my dream.

I was thinking to do something different, something that will change the world, that will change others mind. But, I was scared, because it's only Me who was travelling to that way. Things gonna be very difficult to handle day by day. Also, I am aware that my health will no longer be secure. Eventually, Restless will become my friend. Starting Few days motivated me, then as day passes, things got fast and pending works make me uneasy.

Till now, I come to know that I was reading something different from other students. I was studying unlike to theirs. Yet, sometimes I feel like confused and helpless. Thus, the Only way I could stay focused is to follow my mentor with both my heart and mind. He always told me that success is something where we stop to think. So If we want to be successful, we have to continue thinking with different ways in the same point. When Thinkings lead to Possibilities, it will then End with Success.

Obviously, if you are trying to do what others are not doing, then they are the one who will always interrupt your way. This is what same happened with me too. I was now having my aim, my path seems to be very clear, also, I was surrounded by those people who are going to increase my difficulties. Now, it's my time to fight with all activities happening, just to reach my destination. The only reason they are blocking me, is not because I am Wrong, but, for the reason that, I am different. In view of the fact that, "Being Non-identical is Different", apart from, "Being Ordinary is Common". This is known to be The POWER Of UNIQUENESS.

Genuinely, the success is a need to every individual. But, no one wants to think positively so as to implement their ways straight to victory. Always remember, "Being Unique is actually very Unique than Being Customary" and "Difficult roads will definitely destine to easy life".

Goals Are Mine

Goals are Goals
Sometimes Big Sometimes Small,
May be luckily hit or may be badly missed,
But The only thing is
I'll stick to my aim till the end, so as to catch my grail,
For everyone, it's different way
For some, it's difficult or
For few, it's interesting,
Eventually, Goals are Goals
The one who is constant and managed throughout, is the ultimate winner
Plans are not made to be failed, but only to fix that great word called dreams,
My dream is beautiful and My passion is interesting,
Both are my love, which will keep me wild,
Beautiful and Interesting Combo creates new life on new roads,
No worries for those smile and laugh
Because they'll be with me when I want to,
Forgotten about those people whom I left in past
Because they'll always destruct my thinkings,
May be, with some, I'll be together in upcoming days
Because they know I have decided for good deeds,
But I'll never expect to return on old paths,
With positivity, End with Rage will bring something brand new,
In between, Many left me due to change,
I'll go with them who will definitely wait for me at finishing line,
They said, I lost
I said, it just Started
Focused, then, all are crystal cleared,
That when I determined to make my vision and mission equal in any case,
After all,
My Goals are mine.

ME and MYSELF

Today is my result day, but this result might not be too much important. Engineering Semester Results are not valued as compared to any competitive exams. I was sad, depressed, tensed, yeah, it's common when any result is going to be out. I prayed to Lord, hoping not to fail. Even I would be happy, if I passed by grace. The only wish I made this day was, keeping my parents happy in any situation. And if they'll be glad hearing my good response, then I'll make sure to be successful everytime. Eventually, when the result is opening, I tried to stop that for once and prayed for twice because I was scared, as usually, everyone does. Afterwards, I come to know, sometimes Negative results motivate us more than Positive ones. I stopped my mind for while and started thinking about my past experience of previous Semester. Trying to find some mistakes done by me. Fortunately, there were few, also, I come across some good vibes.

Sometimes, I make a wish, or otherwise, stand still, closing eyes and folding hands, while praying, as I always have faith and believe that he knew everything. But, 99% of faith is sometimes worthless because of just 1% of fortune. True that, we should not believe on luck. But, that 1% may kill you in just 1 second. Isn't that, so ridiculous.... In the end, still I keep doing my hardwork and believing in itself. Also, the fact is, the person who tries make everyone happy and smiling, is the one who is always sad. In the other words, the one who works so hardly and believe in good things, is the only one who cries in end only for fortune. Let me tell you, I'll change this second thought. Are these results really very important? For me, it's not. True, this is the only way to express our leading Career.

For whom do you want to score good and wanna be in top 10 list? Question this to yourself. If the answer is society, then let me tell you that, this so called "Society" will always speak whether good or bad. They will never bother about you. Because they just want a particular topic to gossip, so they will always talk about you, until and unless they reach to some new breaking information. No, society should not be your answer here. I guess, somebody will surely say "Friends". Exactly, friends...!!!  What do want to do with them too? Wanna be a stud or wanna put your collar up while standing between them. You are not wrong, sometimes it is  important to show your importance. But it's not right, when you just showing without being successful completely. I think, this results are not your ultimate goal, yet many more are left. Okay, now if you are going to choose "Relatives", then, you are the most stupid one I have ever seen. Grow up guys, you should have one thing clear in your mind that these people will always speak in favour of society, and they'll never show you the solutions, instead of that, they'll always give you problems. So forget about relatives and make a habit to ignore them.

Then, who's left, "Parents"? Yeah, they are the most worried person in our family. They will support you, show ways to right path, create solutions, grow us to particular directions. They are second to be tensed and worried about our performance. But listen, they will never be satisfied with your outputs, and they have right to wish something more from you. Because they want you to be most appreciated, most successful, and most importantly treated person, because those are the things, they haven't got. So they expect that from their children. There is nothing more precious than them. Don't do work for your parents because they'll always demotivate you saying that they want some more, but it's ok with today, better do hardwork next time. This will be their words.

Don't do for the society and relatives, because they will create a major issues when you lose, they won't help you out in any way. Don't believe your friends, because one or the other day they will become your competitors. Don't focus on parents words, because they believe in you for gaining some more medals and certificates, as they'll never be fine with your current status. Ah, every expected answer is disabled, still you haven't reached to your answer. C'mon, it's simple, the person is ME and MYSELF.

Yes, it's only ME, for whom I'm gonna do good things, for which I have to stand up with all my problems, and be a successful one just only for me. Because, it's me who is going to be there with myself, till the last point of my journey. True, It's ME and MYSELF. Who will never create an issue of my failure and motivate myself when my statistics fall down. Who will create the competitors within my friends and try to win from those crowds. Who will never worried about my parents talks, but Prove them till my end that I am something more to achieve one by one. Fact is, "I will always be there for Myself." or "You will always be there for Yourself."

Inverse Of Watch

He is fixed for every one, but keep on moving in his own place. Never worried about others. Never mind when everyone ignored him. He works for his own will. If he start bothering about what people is saying to him, then he'll never be available for those needy, and all will really messed up in their duty. He is very important in everyone's life, but sometimes, appreciation for his early finish, is kind of good friend to him, and many a time, disrespectful for being too late, is his best friend. It's not his fault to be in speed, his only job is to move straight without looking back. His past may be unknown, future may be undefined, but he believes in present to be on Time. U know what, whatever may be the condition only he will be there for everyone. Lot many things are unique in his character, that will make us to learn some more.

By the way, 'He' is not a Man for me here. First of all, re-read this above paragraph. But, Only condition is use 'It' instead of 'He' in every sentences. Interesting, Can you guess what 'It' may refer to be?? Yes, it's an object used to see time. It's Watch.

Many of us, especially ladies living in same colony or street are habitual of gossiping about daily matters. What do they actually get back after that, of course Nothing. But, they still worried about whole world and their living styles. Like, men are always busy with their work, no time for them, lots of shopping to be done because few days passed, but they didn't show off till now, or sometimes, they'll be tensed about the neighbor children's results or their friendship with others etc etc. No matter this talks really develop their minds in politics. These are one type of people.

Few in these world are actually good, they never sit and gossip with those ladies, but they are actually very eager to know the topics of the gossips, so they are having only one major drawback to sit in someone's house and grasp the information clearly. Seriously these people are more dangerous than the first type.

Don't worry, I have the third type of people to introduce you as the best one. They neither gossip with those ladies nor interact with them personally in somebody's house. But, they are one who has these in-built qualities before hand. Actually, they are more bothered about their own family living members including other relatives staying apart. They are really tensed about what other relatives will say if something happens or if appreciation overflow etc. Yeah, this is different one.

True that, I may not be able to change their behavior, but surely try to focus on their thinkings. If you carefully read the first paragraph, then you may come across few relations between rest three types of people. The only similarity is that all the three are INVERSE OF WATCH. Now you may relate them. Basically, my point is, there is no harm in changing the topics of gossip, because all we know that, gossip creates the awareness. But, Instead of talking about others daily life, we should proceed with some positive waves. Likewise, talking and appreciating others for what they are doing, as because generation is changing and learning new styles of living.

Be like Watch, Be like Different. Be on Present, Be on Time. Move On with Gossips, Move In with Styles.